[chevy]

Ok so my fiance and I have a pretty good sex life. But I believe it's time for me to step it up a bit and show him how sexy I can really be. There's one problem though. I know how to be sexy just not like "wow" sexy if that makes any since. I want him to see a sexier side of me. Can anyone help me and tell me what I should do to become a bigger wow factor to him. I honestly don't care if it's just what I say or how I walk or whatever it really doesn't matter. If there are any guys on here I would like your advice too. But I have decided to wait a week before having any sexual contact with him so maybe that could help out on the being sexy part. So any ideas just throw them out there. Thanks

[DreamP346]

"sexy" is such a difficult concept to define. It varies for each person/partner. For one person it may be wearing Victoria Secret and for another it may be wearing the sleezy stuff while for others its cosplay. It may be saying dirty things or teasing with dirty text messages. It can be you being dominant or very submissive. It may be the type of sex you engage in. It can be a look. It can be setting up a scenario with candles, etc. Do you have an idea of what your partner considers sexy?

[chevy]

Well I don't know if this helps and don't think its weird because most do but we enjoy rough sex. And he is always horny no matter what I do. I just want to try something different is all. We have done the texting but I was looking more towards acting and talking sexy in front of him when he comes home. But I don't know how to do so that could seem sexy.

[SweetPeaches]

How about get naked and pretend you are sleeping on the couch so when he gets home he will be very surprised.

[DreamP346]

If you like rough sex, maybe try some domination/submission. Leather outfits and taking control (unless he is the one that likes to take control). Get all dressed up in something very sexy (leather, crotchless underwear, etc), put some music on, have a drink and wait for him to come home. When he arrives, tell him that you have been waiting for him and are now going to **** his brains out. Talk really dirty using language that you would never in a million years say in public.

Hope that helps.

[jns]

From my own preferences, I would say to take charge.

A scenario: he comes in and you have a sturdy chair there. You tell him sweetly that you have something to tell him and ask him to sit down. Then tell him you are scared of what he might do when you tell him the big news so you need to tie his hands to the chair. When he is tied up, sit on his lap and aggressively kiss him with your tongue going into his mouth. If he tries to use his tongue, kiss him elsewhere but stay in control and when he is ready, repeat with you being in control. Meanwhile grind on him, but give him no relief when he gets turned on. Make him beg for it. After a while, remove his pants and continue to grind on him. Get ready yourself, but leave most of your clothes on so he cannot see anything only feel your body against his. Sit on him, but control the tempo to your own liking but not quite to his. Make him reach peaks but not let him release until you want to. Whisper in his ear that you love him. Untie him.

[DSemcho]

Make him a sammich.... With bacon...


Seriously though, it just depends on the guy. For instance my husband loves sock (knee highs, thigh highs, ankles with frills) so really you need to find out what he likes to get the "wow" factor going.

[WannaBee]

What you need girl are: Balls!

Figure out what You would like to do yourself and then see, if he likes it too.
Of course there's a priori no way of knowing, if he'll like it too. But as long as you communicate, things should be fine.
How to figure out, what you would try to do? Well, there is this thing called the ''Internet'', which you surely have heard about.
Should you prefer a more personal setting, talk to some of your really good friends.

Confidence and your own enjoyment are major turn ons for most men.

So my advise: Be confident, be bold and try new stuff.
However, remember the golden rule: Only if you Both like it, it is acceptable.