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Big Girls and me and my size
i love big women and by that i mostly mean women from around 150 to 185lbs but sometimes i'm definately attracted to bigger women as well. i am a male 5'9'' about 175lbs.one of the things i like most on these women is big round butts although i've often heard it's hard for a smaller guy like me to satisfy these kinds of women and what i mean by smaller is my package which is about 4.75 inches long when i'm erect. i don't have much experience so is it true it will be harder for me to satisfy bigger women with my smaller package and will most women think i indeed have a small penis? even if they do think i'm small it would not hurt my feelings or my confidense because i like myself the way i am and i may even be a little too confident at times. anyway Ladies what are your honest opinions on this? thanks very much for your opinions or help! -
I don't think being heavier means a bigger vagina.. My weight has fluctuated Fr 120- 150 and I'm pretty sure my vagina stayed the same.. And my boyfriend who used to be kinda a man***** once told his friend the littlest girls have a thebiggest vaginas.. Probably not a scientific fact but just saying.. -
Yeah body size and fat have nothing to do with the vaginal canal the opening, the elasticity of the vagina etc. Thats a huge misconception. Vaginas are like rubber bands, they stretch and contract. They can birth a baby and 2 months later wrap themselves around a tampon skinnier than a finger and hold it inside just fine
99 pound 5'1 women can birth a baby from their vagina in the same way a 200 pound 6'0 tall woman can.
Same with penises... short guys with big ones, tall guys with little ones.. etc. People just vary.
your size sounds more than adequate.. pleasing a woman is so much less to do with your equipment than how much you pay attention to what she likes.. what feels good to her.
If you make a woman feel sexy, if you flirt with her and turn her on.. if you learn her body and gauge its reactions to various stimulations and learn what it takes to tease and please her... how big or small your penis is... is just not going to factor.
Most women can have multiple orgasms with proper finger stimulation.. that being said.. a penis as big or bigger than a finger.. is going to do the trick.
Visually however, some women are sexually attracted to larger penises. Its just a preference some have in the way some men have a preference for huge boobs. A woman having huge boobs doesnt make the sex feel any different, but its the visual of it that does the trick for the guy... thats the same for some women that prefer bigger men, its more of a mental/visual thing than a physical sensation thing.
But like not all men care about tripple d's, not all women are seeking an 8 incher.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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Recently I asked a question very similar to this. I was starting a sexual relationship with a very curvy built larger woman. I had usually dated woman not her size so I was wondering if my average penis size would satisfy her. Turns out it very much did satisfy her and she moaned very loudly and came often with penetration. Now I don't think it was anything special about my penis but rather the making love process and how her body reacts when being pleased and sexually aroused. The relationship did not last long due to the fact it was an open relationship but again recently I had a threesome experience (never had one before). My new smaller built GF and her larger curvy (different larger curvy woman) friend and myself. The reality was her larger curvy friend had a tighter vagina. Why I don't know (I thought because she had never had a baby while my GF had). Maybe because my GF gets really wet and is why it felt that way. Maybe my GF vagina just opens more when aroused. Don't know but it seems like size of the body does not translate into vaginal opening size. Also penis size seems not to matter either. All of these woman have told me my penis feels really good inside them and I have never been told by any woman that my penis is not big enough. It is about 5.75 inches so not a long dong. Men, (I was too) are generally too worried about this when in reality it is rarely a problem. Average is average because it is most common. Average should be good enough and it is.Comment
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