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  • doubletake
    Junior Member
    • Jun 2012
    • 1

    Hello Advise needid

    Hello, i just dont understand something looking for some help... here goes..

    Me and my partner have been through ALOT these last few year's he broke his back 2 years ago i love him sooo much
    and to tell the truth he has lost all sence of feeling in his man bits due to the accident! for 2 years we havent had sex nor did he touch me as he was in fear i'd reject him ... but anyway today i woke up and he was being realy lovely to be and he pleasured me and just after i broke down in tears? i dont understand why? some kind of guilt maybe that i cant return the favour? i dont know i NEED awnsers
  • Claret
    Assistant Admin
    • Jan 2011
    • 1823

    Have you asked him what you could do to make him feel this special as well? I have a very close girlfriend whose husband ended up in a wheelchair following a motorcycle accident. They have a loving, sexual relationship. They also have had children through envitro fertilization. There may be implants that he could use for full intercourse. Check things out before you say you can't return the favour, sometimes the best part of a sexual encounter is the visual aspects. See what you can do and for heaven's sake, ask him what he'd like.
    That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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    • Guest

      You crying might not have been because of guilt. It could also have been relief. The fact that you haven't had it in so long and he hadn't touched you either.

      I agree with the above poster, you should try things out. He might have more sensation down there than he thought he did.

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