[Jay10]

Hiya

I've been with my partner for 5 years and I'm only 21. We have a very healthy sex life and always trying out new things.*
Resently, during foreplay...I felt a pleasure I had not felt before. Normally, he would play with my clitoris during these times and it started out that way but I desperately wanted his fingers inside me. He said it was tighter than normal and couldn't move his fingers properly what he did do felt amazing. I didn't orgasm due to his fingers being fatigued but I tingled for ages afterwards. I knew I could orgasm from it, I could feel It build up nicely.*

I can't stop thinking about it. I thought it was odd that during solo sessions I've been craving something inside me which isn't something that is normal for me.*
After that time with my partner, I tried on my own. I got very very wet while playing with the top wall of my vagina and after 2 clitoral orgasms, I was too tight to move my fingers properly. The walnutty textured 'ceiling' had just swelled like I have never known.*

I tried a few pressures and movements with 2 fingers until I couldn't carry on. I didn't feel much from it or at least not what I felt with my partner.*

I'm abit frustrated. Am I able to orgasm from this or is it a futile effort?*
I've read websites and they say to continue playing and it will eventually happen but nothing was building up and I was becoming frustrated.

Is it something I will have to train myself to feel? Or should I give up?

Starting to feel like the time with my partner was a 'one off' or an accident. Can anyone give me any advice on their own experiences? *
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[ItsASecret]

Yes that is the G-spot. It is a different feeling for all women but the general description is that it is on the upper wall of the vagina, has a different texture than the rest of the vagina, and if stimulated enough leads to the "I need to pee" sensations. Not all women can orgasm from stimulating the area even if they find it though as no area is a button or switch to achieve an orgasm. Simply experiment and see what comes of it, no pun intended.

[jns]

You probably were more excited with your partner and the fact that he doesn't have direct sensation feedback that you do, may mean that he used more pressure and/or persistence than you did. I think you should continue to explore your reactions to this. Try to approach it with an open mind, instead of a deadline.

[AshB$]

Generally when my gspot is stimulated so much, I ejaculate. But never do I feel an orgasm.

[Hugo-B]

My ex primarily had g-spot orgasms, she climaxed via straddling me and making lay still with my legs together - that was all I had to do, lucky me. She told me she basically adjusted herself around on top of me until her g-spot was pressed against me then she'd just grind around and climax in less than 30 seconds (though already aroused from intercourse, asking to go on top was her way of letting me know she was ready to cum). You could try this and move around on top of your BF and see if you can use him to stimulate your g-spot? Alternatively another girl I was seeing would lay on her back, guide me in and move my hips around with her hands to guide the thrusts and tell me when I was on her g-spot then pull my hips to indicate how hard and fast she wanted me to thrust.