[Josh]

Ok girls im a highschooler and im scared to have sex because im 10cm long and 3.5 centimeters wide... Is that a bad thing, i can barely fit a regular sized condom. I need honest answer please..

[kathyn]

Hi Josh

I am not sexually experienced myself, but from what I have read the penis size does not matter at all. This is beacuse most women get off on clitoral stimulation. So your girlfriend will not really care about your penis but rather your skills in licking and touching and using her vibrator on her. Hope this helps.

[Josh]

Thanks kathyn

[LanaBear]

Once you know your way around a woman's body by touch, whether it be your hands, fingers, lips, tongue, etc. Penis size is rarely an issue. I won't lie, for some it is but those seem rare. Make sure she is pleasured as much as possible before the actual act of sex and you shouldn't have any problems.

[avvie_88]

Weiner's alone don't do the trick for 99.9% of us anyway.
A big weiner might help a little, but skill is more important by a million miles. And you have to start learning "skill" somewhere...and most of us girls, I would say, would be happy to help teach it. So...you're good to go! haha

[Josh]

Well will that even pleasure a girl, 10cm long and 3.5cm thick

[avvie_88]

Technically, the "G" spot is 2-3 inches (2.54cm in an inch) in. The G-spot is generally thought of as a spot that gives a lot of pleasure (some would agree, some would disagree). So 10cm exceeds what you "need."
Like another answer said, most women need other stimuli (like of the clitoris).
A girl can get HERSELF off rubbing and (not even necessary) having her finger inside of her. Her finger is smaller than your parts! And it makes her feel good!

Pretty much what I'm saying, though...you could not have a penis AT ALL, and you could still pleasure a girl. The fact that you even have a penis is just a perk.

[Whispa]

Hi Josh, you say youre in high school. How old are you? Bear in mind you're body might still be developing. I take it you also mean the size fully hard yes?
As the other girls say, size isn't everything, and if you're with someone you trust, if you're worried about it. What exactly are you concerned about, not being able to pleasure her or something else?
If you know how to use you're fingers in the right places on your girl, then you're good, for your self, go tot he drugstore and see if you can find tighter fit or ridged condoms, these might help the pleasure side too if that is a concern.
Also there are plenty of sites that give help and advice on these type of things. You're quite normal you know, to worry most guys worry, they just don't say it. If you're asking because you're sensitive to her needs, then that's a huge plus.

[Little]

Most guys are apprehensive about whether their penis size is "enough." We have a million threads about it, actually. Weighing in on whether it "really" matters or not. Allow me to share what I've gathered as a sort of majority rule over the years:
As long as it's the 2-3 inches long that Avvie mentioned (that's 5-7 cm,) which is basically the size capable of penetration, you're fine. Bigger might be a plus, but women's vaginas actually vary in size, so there can be such a thing as too big as well. Also, a lot of other guys will give false information about their penis size - whether because they are insecure or because they're measuring too generously. So, don't compare yourself to others.

I agree with Whispa that you're probably still growing and developing. Don't put too much money on the measurements. Honest communication about what your partner likes, learning from each other, and being kind and affectionate while learning are more important than centimeters.

[Josh]

Ohh thanks