Is this normal to want to be all over him constantly? lol Sometimes I get upset over it because I feel like I'm bothering him.
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I didn't lose my virginity too long ago. It's been a couple months, but ever since I've became comfortable with sex, I just have this habit of always wanting to touch my fiance's penis. I think sometimes he gets annoyed lol because I will do it at random times, random places. I had never before in my life been intimate with a man, so the whole penis thing has been kind of new to me. I thought it was scary at first, but now I love it. I just constantly want to touch it. I do it til the point where he says he's sore.
Is this normal to want to be all over him constantly? lol Sometimes I get upset over it because I feel like I'm bothering him. -
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Hi, I know what you mean, it alike a new toy, you don't want to put it down, but you have to, since it is attached to your man, and yes he can get sore, like you would if he was doing it to you all the time. I go through periods f obsessive behaviours, and I haven't been a virgin for a long long time.
Personally and I don't into how you feel about this, I found a website, called show your ********, and I look on there, there's lots of nice pics, and that seems to keep me happy. Also I went to Ann summers and bought mr Tom. It's a real feel dildo, it's not warm like a man, but does similar job. I have to say to some degree your fascination may seem a little like penis envy. We all get that or had that at some time, and if you're just discovering these things now, I don't think it's unnatural that you might feel a little obsessed towards your partners appendage. I mean. Wouldn't it be cool to have one of our own?
If you're touching him in public places, it is inappropriate, but then perhaps it is the reaction to the touch, you touch him, he gets hard, and what a great feeling, you did that, nothing better than knowing a man is really hard because of you. But also the act needs to be special, and private to a point of course. A few toys may help you in the interim or touch yourself. Maybe tell him that you love his penis, and you want to touch it all the time, to you it's perfect and you love the look feel etc. realise that it's inappropriate to do it in public however, you don't want to embarrass him, and the wait till you get home, might make it more exciting, because of the anticipation.
Also if you want to touch it a lot, get some lube, or baby oil, feels great and moisturises him too, he won't get do sore.Last edited by Alison H.; 09-16-2021, 02:56 PM.Never judge on face value, never assume someone is ok, because to you they look it. Enjoy life and what you have, don't take it for granted, not everyone is as lucky as you.
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