[Long]

My wife 25 years old, and we have two children.

I have notice that many times I found some cut around the vagina, and some times in the Perineum area. That caused by having sex, and it makes her sensitive and it hurts if I touch it. Many times its ok to have sex, but I have to be careful about the angel to not touch a certain place.

Lately, I have notice that all our problems in bed is because of that. I feel like if I press the Perineum's skin I would make a hole threir. Her skin sensitive and with stretching it would get cuts.

Any idea about that issue?
or what specialist should we consult?

[jns]

Are you using enough lubrication? If you don't uses enough lubrication, she could get cuts from sex. Is her pubic hair long? If it is, it can be pulled in along with the penis and its coarseness could cause cuts.

[Long]

Are you using enough lubrication? If you don't uses enough lubrication, she could get cuts from sex. Is her pubic hair long? If it is, it can be pulled in along with the penis and its coarseness could cause cuts.

The cuts outside, between the vagina and the anus. and around the vagina from outside. It is a result of hard stretch.

Some times all the area around the vagina go inside. She has like a rubbery skin, not all times though

[DreamP346]

How long has it been since she gave birth to your last child? The perineam often rips during childbirth and may not have healed completely. Does she feel any pain during sex?

[Long]

2 years. Yes, some times it hurt her, many times she get vagina infection.
Also emotionally she is different. She get nervous when I touch her or do any sexual action with her, even little kissing. She is normal only when we don't see each other for a couple of days, when I get back home she would be in normal condition emotionally, I mean she want me to touch her an kiss her.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hi Long,

JNS asked in his post if you are using lubrication or enough lubrication and I note there was no reply to that.

Everything you have stated here, suggests to me in my opinion of "dryness' on the outside of her vagina as well as thrush, from penetrating in dryness which can be passed onto you and back to her on-going.

It wouldn't suprise me with her "fear" and as such dryness inside either.

So could you please answer JNS's question in that regard so we can work out where to provide our opinions from here.

Thanks .

[Long]

Hi Long,

JNS asked in his post if you are using lubrication or enough lubrication and I note there was no reply to that.

Everything you have stated here, suggests to me in my opinion of "dryness' on the outside of her vagina as well as thrush, from penetrating in dryness which can be passed onto you and back to her on-going.

It wouldn't suprise me with her "fear" and as such dryness inside either.

So could you please answer JNS's question in that regard so we can work out where to provide our opinions from here.

Thanks .

No we do not use lubricant. If we use it, she will feels burn and it really hurt her.
She could hardly get wet, naturally, and barely enough to wet the inside only. the only way would be by me doing her a blow job, and this would make just the inside wet.

I never thought the outside should be wet, even the near outside edge usually dry.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

She has an allergic reaction to the lube she has tried and that's not abnormal.

Have her speak to a Chemist/Doctor about a softer lube that is senstitive to the skin.

A woman has to be wet inside and that bought to the outside before intercourse and not all women get wet straight off either.

Your problem is she needs initial assistance, she needs lube.

[Long]

She has an allergic reaction to the lube she has tried and that's not abnormal.

Have her speak to a Chemist/Doctor about a softer lube that is senstitive to the skin.

A woman has to be wet inside and that bought to the outside before intercourse and not all women get wet straight off either.

Your problem is she needs initial assistance, she needs lube.

I feel comfortable with your solution, after I read other posts for you. I had huge misunderstood about lubricants and I just learned important thing about them, and our experience with them.

Thanks for your time.