I have never made myself orgasm and neither have any of my partners. I've never even gotten close except for one or two times, and that was only because those two times were the horniest I've ever been in my life. I have only ever orgasmed in dreams, in which I am usually masturbating, but when I try to replicate the technique in real life I feel much too sensitive. Direct clitoral stimulation always feels too intense for me. It makes me tense up and can sometimes feel ticklish and painful. I am unable to relax even with slow and gentle clitoral stimulation. I really feel like I'm missing out on life and it's depressing me...
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Do you stimulate your clitoris through the hood? You may be able to control the intensity by doing that.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia -
Yeah I agree with the above, or stimulate it on one of the sides as well. I think touching it full-on can be too "intense" for a lot of people, myself included.
Keep practicing, and then once you learn it yourself you can teach your partners to do it too.
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