[collegechick]

hello sooo umm well i have two differnt issues im having.....

one is months ago me and my boyfriend tom were doing anal sex not regularly but like ahhhh here and there.. sooo recently we tryed to get back in the grove of things and i got the urge back that i have to **** or **** or it just hurts and ruins my mood so i make him stop... what do i do..

and second thing...

One night me and him were in the hot tub alone and things got heated...
i was always joking about well you put things up my butt.. what about yours... soooo he finnaly agreed to in the hottub and he had me proceed in the hottube while making out.. and then we ended the hottube early to go into the bedroom to proceed with that and regular sex..
after i went home i felt very distant froom him .. i felt very weird and i felt like i ruined my realtionship with him
then just the other day it got brought back up and i felt okay to proceed.. he asked me to bring over my vibrater and i already had lube at his house. sooo once again things got heated handcuffs were out and he wanted to use myyyyy vibrater on his *** hole.. lol..
so i did. he said it didnt hurt but that he had a feeling he had to ****.. i said welcome to my world... he also told me that it felt good and that to assure me hes not gay. his one friend mentioned that he tried it and his friend liked it. so he wanted to attempt which is nice that hed want to be sexualy open and experance new things with me. so that kinda means alot but the anal still a little freaks me out...doing it to him.
he actually came on it.. he was just about to touch it or kinda jack it and he just exspolded about 2 days worth all over. i take it that was an orgasum on his end?

thank you

[CHANDLERS WISH]

A man can have orgasms from his prostate, therefore anal touch or penetration seems to en-hance the reach of that orgasm. Seems they have experimented his friends and agree and he wanted to try it.

It doesn't at all make him gay.. Like he said, he is experimenting. So are you.

[jns]

A prostate massage can get a guy very excited. You can do it with a finger if you don't want to use the vibrator, just make sure your nails aren't a problem and use a lot of lube.

[collegechick]

RE.

A prostate massage can get a guy very excited. You can do it with a finger if you don't want to use the vibrator, just make sure your nails aren't a problem and use a lot of lube.

Welll thats what i did in the hottub.. and he siad that felt good and i had fake nails.. he siad the vibrater felt good.
Should i feel weird about this because im seeing him actually really soon and i just idk. i feel kinda weird about it!

like idk should i feel weird..

[rcoreyus]

Its gay if he wants to do it with other men, not if he wants to do it with you. Its common for men to enjoy anal if they can get over the mental hangup.