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  • Laraa
    Member
    • Jul 2011
    • 14

    Tongues during kissing?

    Ok so i met someone and on our date it was time to make out but he stuck his tongue out and just sat there saying come on, duno if im abit dumb but i was abit put off by it. I always thought tongues were introduced once lips had met if you know what i mean. I really need some advice on this. This is obviously his tecnique dont know how to deal with it next time so i need some tips.
  • Little
    • Feb 2007
    • 4329

    I think it's a safe assumption that tongues should stay in the mouth until lips meet ... that's how I've always known it go work.

    Is there any chance he was just messing with you?
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    • Laraa
      Member
      • Jul 2011
      • 14

      No he was very serious. Hes older and had alot of experience with other ladies so im puzzled. Whenever he wants to make a move he moves towards my lips with his tongue out and that just puts me off abit. Not sure what to do.

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      • Little
        • Feb 2007
        • 4329

        Well, if you didn't laugh at him, then you're a better person than I am. Because I don't think I could have helped myself.

        I'm confused, though ... in another thread, you said you were a man, in another you talked about your husband, and now you're saying your date has experience with "other ladies?" These don't add up, are you sharing an account with your husband? Did your husband ever stick his tongue out at you like this? Very odd.
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        • Laraa
          Member
          • Jul 2011
          • 14

          A man? no im not a man. I am married but separated from hubby.

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          • Laraa
            Member
            • Jul 2011
            • 14

            just looked thru my older threads i dont see any saying im a man LOL.

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            • Little
              • Feb 2007
              • 4329

              I see, I read the other thread wrong. Being that you've had previous partners, you know it's not conventional to just stick your tongue out and try to kiss someone that way. Maybe you can tell your date that you prefer to kiss without tongues to begin with. Maybe it's just that nobody has ever showed disinterest in his technique before.
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              • Laraa
                Member
                • Jul 2011
                • 14

                Well to be honest my only previous experience i have had is my husband so i only have that to compare to. It seemed odd thought id see if im missing out on some new tecnique. Its jst strange to see a tongue coming towards you

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                • Fallen1
                  Veteran Member
                  • Oct 2007
                  • 1937

                  I agree .... a bit odd.

                  When I first read this the first thing that came to mind if I were in the situation was me laughing and asking if I was supposed to suck on it or something.
                  There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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                  • ItsASecret
                    APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
                    • Apr 2009
                    • 3721

                    When I first read this I thought of a lizard sticking their tongue out lol. But seriously a man just sticking his tongue out is just bizarre. What are you supposed to do? Immediately ravish it with your own tongue? Suck on it? Bite it? Mash your lips against his tongue? Makes no sense to just stick his tongue out lol.
                    There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.

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