[Hugo-B]

No he was very serious. Hes older and had alot of experience with other ladies so im puzzled. Whenever he wants to make a move he moves towards my lips with his tongue out and that just puts me off abit. Not sure what to do.

I've NEVER heard of this before. Where (as in what country) is he from of you don't mind me asking? Just out of idle curiosity.

If you like the guy you could try politely asking him to refrain from this if this is the only off-putting thing he is doing. I would expect to be laughed at, slapped, or both but I'm not sure in which order if I did that to a women, but each to their own.

[rosekitten]

I don't know, something in my gut is screaming that it was some sort of power play on his part. Does he know that you have little experience? If so, it's likely that he's just playing you to see just how much control he can exert- without being overt about it. Some people get off on lying and manipulating people.

[Laraa]

I agree .... a bit odd.

When I first read this the first thing that came to mind if I were in the situation was me laughing and asking if I was supposed to suck on it or something.

LOL well to be honest i was thinking the same thing at the time, i thought what the ****? wonder if he wants me to suck on it. Oh dear it was very akward.

[Laraa]

When I first read this I thought of a lizard sticking their tongue out lol. But seriously a man just sticking his tongue out is just bizarre. What are you supposed to do? Immediately ravish it with your own tongue? Suck on it? Bite it? Mash your lips against his tongue? Makes no sense to just stick his tongue out lol.

Exactly, what am i supposed to do? I was completely lost. i thought mayb he wants abit of tongue play then get into kissing but it just didnt seem right at all. Glad im the normal one haha

[Laraa]

I've NEVER heard of this before. Where (as in what country) is he from of you don't mind me asking? Just out of idle curiosity.

If you like the guy you could try politely asking him to refrain from this if this is the only off-putting thing he is doing. I would expect to be laughed at, slapped, or both but I'm not sure in which order if I did that to a women, but each to their own.

He is English, from Uk. Well because he has had alot of experience well more than me i thought maybe its something im missing out on lol obviously not.

[Laraa]

I don't know, something in my gut is screaming that it was some sort of power play on his part. Does he know that you have little experience? If so, it's likely that he's just playing you to see just how much control he can exert- without being overt about it. Some people get off on lying and manipulating people.

Yes he does know about it.