[yzf0600a]

This question is directed to the ladies.
Since I haven't kissed anyone for about 10 years I was wondering,
What is the best way, worst way, what specifically is great or bad etc. How Important is it to you? How often? When and Where, on the body? Also, what about kissing in public, how much, how often etc.

Thanks
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[ItsASecret]

I am not really one for kissing but what I can say is do not get sloppy. If you are a real drooly person (lol that just sounds funny to say) then try to keep your lips closed for the most part so it does not get too wet. Do not just dive into a french kiss or anything, that can be a real turnoff. Just light pecks/kisses to get it going is usually the best way. You will be able to gauge how she wants the kiss to go after you have had a few pecks one after the other, she could grab your face or head and pull you in that would be a sign to pick it up a bit or maybe she pulls away quickly which is a sign for do not proceed further.

What works in regards to kissing her body is entirely subjective, she likes what she likes and you will need to find those spots. For me it is behind my ear or my neck. Public kissing is okay but keep in mind people may not want to see too much PDA, it is pretty gross to see two people literally throwing their tongues around eachother in the middle of a park or just walking along the street or in the mall. Do not do that lol.

[DreamP346]

Yes, please no sloppiness. I hated that with previous partners. Be creative. There is more than the peck and French. Suck on just parts of the lip. Grate your teeth gently along the bottom lip as you pull and gently suck on it. Don't just stick your tougue as far as it goes. Try to do different stuff with it. Brush her teech with you tongue, etc. Focus on the kissing and not getting your hands else where on her body. You will get distracted and the kiss will start to get sloppy.

I love kissing that isn't the usual "stick your tongue in" stuff and I love it when my partner can give me a good kiss while we are having intercourse. But that can get tricky with all the moaning and other stuff going on.

PDA depends on each person. Some don't go beyond holding hands and others like to make out. It depends on you, your partner and where you are.

There is a lot to kissing but it all depends on the individual. I like full body contact when we are kissing and I don't have problems with PDA although if I really want to make out, I'll find a room. But a quick tongue action to say goodbye in public is really nice.

[rosekitten]

I just wish I could get my husband to keep his tongue out of my mouth. If there's any give in my lips, in he goes! <_< No amount of telling him to keep it in his mouth has helped.

[Hugo-B]

I think kissing is one of the most intimate things you can do with someone, kissing on the mouth that is. I would agree with no sloppiness as the girls stated, other than that I would just say relax and do what feels right/comes naturally.

I had a couple of girls tell me I was a **** kisser when I was younger and I believe this was because I was quite nervous when I was kissing them.

[balanced]

I think kissing is a very personal thing. Everyone will have a preference. But sloppy, no thanks.
During sex, anywhere on the body, nowhere is out of bounds (to me) a slow line down someones spine, over their backside and down their leg to their instep is way sexy.
PDA as a PP said not full on, no one wants to see that but a quick bit of tongue action to say goodbye is a turn on, not heaps a quick in and out. Smacks of things to come later.

[itgirl]

vice versa

I was once told that the best and effective way of kissing is when you feel his love for you and vice versa..

[AshB$]

I find kissing to be very important. Even if it's a little peck. I expect my fiance to do it every couple minutes lol.
Everyone is different on how they like being kissed. So if you kiss someone, see what they do and follow them.

I've had people who open their mouth way to wide and practically drown you ha. And other who will not open their dang mouths lol.
I like it inbetween, but I'm sure everyone prefers it differently.

[Kiwicherry]

In my relationship, kissing is a great and important thing. I really don't like kissing in public and we don't do that. For me, kissing is an important part of the foreplay in bed. Someone said "be creative" and that's true, I'd say. Before I kissed my boyfriend, I did not know that it could be this wonderful. Kissing can turn me on so much that it could be our whole foreplay.
And also, there are these loving soft kisses. We kiss each other almost everywhere on the body. To say goodnight, I often kiss my boyfriend on the forehead and the corners of the mouth. Also, kissing on the thigh and the inner surface of it is wonderful and can lead softly to oral adventures...

[MissNorty]

[QUOTE=sp346;320868]I love kissing that isn't the usual "stick your tongue in" stuff and I love it when my partner can give me a good kiss while we are having intercourse. But that can get tricky with all the moaning and other stuff going on. QUOTE]

Ditto

I love it when he kisses me on the top of my head, or my forhead when we are hugging or cuddling
I love it when he teases me, like during sex, he'll kiss me on my neck, behind my ear, from my neck down to my shoulder, on my boobs, he'll give me a peck, maybe a little tongue, nip my lip playfully, but he wont let me get him (as in give him a pash) untill he drives me crazyyy! And then we'l have a real good passionate one
I love it when he holds my face (gently) and will just give me a kiss when im not expecting it

I hate, when going in for a kiss its tongue straight away... Ugh no, built it up a bit! Makes us want it!!
No Sloppys LOL
No teeth banging!!!!

Public affection... I hate seeing ppls tongues goin at it.. Save it for the bedrom geez! IMO - keep it PG, holding hands, hugs, pecs, maybe a little bit of tongue if the moments right!

Kissing to me is a very important, intimate part of a relationship