[mona83]

I am a 28 years old woman and my boyfriend is 36. It has been around 2 months that I started having sex with him. we did not have any problems at the beginning but recently he is not cumming during sex and I remember using dirty words helped just on time but it happened after 2 hours of attempt and he was not in my vagina, I mean he was rubbing his penis between my legs. I know he is masturbating and watching porn movies a lot. I should add that he is experienced in sex but I am not.

please help me what should I do to save the relationship.
Thanks in advance for your kind attention.

[DreamP346]

First question, does is he satisfied sexually? If so, then don't be worried about that. Just like women can find satisfaction without an orgasm, som can men.

The other thing is is he really overly focused on your pleasure. That can cause delayed ejaculation. Talk to him about it. That is your best option to make the relationship work.

[mona83]

No, he is always nagging of our sex quality and I don't think he is focusing a lot on my pleasure. I was thinking it might due to his habit of masturbation and porn movies.

[DreamP346]

No, he is always nagging of our sex quality and I don't think he is focusing a lot on my pleasure. I was thinking it might due to his habit of masturbation and porn movies.

It certainly can. Ask him to give up porn for a week and see if it changes things. The other is to watch porn during sex. Although that may just perpetuate the issue.

[mona83]

thanks a lot for your advice