[Starlit]

I have a strange question about mens' orgasms. I was thinking about this earlier and it got the better of my curiosity lol. So I have noticed that when my boyfriend has an orgasm, he prefers completely different things depending on what we're doing. If we have intercourse or a blowjob, he always stops moving completely and makes me do the same just before he starts to ejaculate...he says it totally messes up the orgasm if I move during it! However, when I give him a hand job (and apparently when he "does it himself" also), he seems to want to be stroked really fast all through the orgasm. I can understand the second one, but the stopping thing always seemed a bit strange to me lol. Anyways, is this type of thing normal with guys, or is mine just unique? If so, what might make it feel good one way but not the other? Do the orgasms feel better or worse from different "acts"? I tried asking him but he gets kind of shy talking about that sort of thing lol.

I appreciate the input!

[jns]

I can understand it. He wants the orgasm to be without distractions. When he wants both of you to not move, he is already at the point of no return. By not moving, he can feel every little bit as his body completes the ejaculation. Maybe a little unusual, but not too much.

I prefer driving in at the time of the first spurt, but after that I don't do a lot of motion. With girl on top, she can make the sensation unbelievable to overload due to heightened sensitivity. Maybe he gets too sensitive.

[JonDoe]

Anyways, is this type of thing normal with guys, or is mine just unique?

Everyone is similar and unique in many ways, including sex, masturbation and love making.

When I masturbate, sometimes I "shoot to score" quickly. Others times I will make it last as long as possible, with only one powerful orgasm, shooting 6 feet, sometimes more. Occasionally, I will stop right at the point of orgasm as the tingling feeling shoots from my head to my toes, a lot of cum will slowly spill out, without having full orgasmic spasms in my groin, and I can repeat the whole sequence 3 or 4 times before a final, orgasm.

I suspect that when he cums inside you, that he wants to feel his muscle contractions and possibly yours as well. Perhaps any movement will change the experience for him, so go with it and enjoy the look on his face! Some guys like to have their balls tugged when they cum, and so much more.

[TJPatriot]

Yeah, I've started to notice this too for myself. And this is actually true for different "types" of intercourse. Sometimes I will orgasm because of more of a mental thing (I'll be turned on because of her movements/actions or something) and I will generally keep going through that. But sometimes I orgasm because it has physically built up to be that pleasurable and I stop moving during my orgasm for those, I get far more sensitive during those.

[Texasred]

I have a strange question about mens' orgasms. ... I tried asking him but he gets kind of shy talking about that sort of thing lol.

I appreciate the input!

He's the one you should be asking: you two are way beyond "shy" - ask him what he wants, and why, tell him it's so you can understand his orgasm and help him make the most of it! As you explore the possibilities, he is very likely to discover there are additional ways that are even more enjoyable.
And the same is true for you too, of course.
Best wishes,
TR