I'm male 51 my GF is 42. We are completely enjoying each other. We both fairly satisfied from each other in the bed. Some times I do ask her how she enjoyed ? She always reply oh it was great. I also ask her have we spent enough time doing sex. She replied " Oh ya but it would have been better if we have been doing it more longer " I wanna ask you ladies whats that mean ? She meant we didn't spent enough time or she meant it was NOT long enough ? It sounds like she contradicts her own confession of her being fully satisfied. BTW help me understand how long (sex time) is long enough? Thanks !
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It's subjective, depends on the person. Maybe she does think you should have sex longer ... maybe she just meant that she really liked having sex with you, it was enjoyable the whole time, and she thought you'd like it if she said she wanted it to last longer?
Was this conversation in English? It doesn't sound like English is your first language, and I don't want to pick apart translated words when I might be missing some original context. No offense meant.<center><i>Nature gives us shapeless shapes,<br>Clouds and waves and flame,<br>But human expectation is that love remains the same,<br>And when it doesn’t, we point our fingers and blame.</i><br><a href="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/register.php">Register</a>|<a href="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/members/little.html">Contact Admin</a>|<a href="mailto:support*womens-health.com?subject=Forum Contact">Email Admin</a></center> -
Does she reach orgasm? Maybe the intercourse isn't long enough for her to reach orgasm. Does she reach orgasm during foreplay?I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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25 minutes is more than enough for some people, not nearly enough for others. Maybe as your relationship with your partner deepens, she'll feel comfortable telling you in more detail what she'd like to get out of sex, since that's the only way you can know for sure. Sounds like she's opening up already.<center><i>Nature gives us shapeless shapes,<br>Clouds and waves and flame,<br>But human expectation is that love remains the same,<br>And when it doesn’t, we point our fingers and blame.</i><br><a href="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/register.php">Register</a>|<a href="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/members/little.html">Contact Admin</a>|<a href="mailto:support*womens-health.com?subject=Forum Contact">Email Admin</a></center>Comment
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