[DreamP346]

I don't think anybody has a body like Beyonce. Probably not even her since most celebrity photos are photoshopped. But most women wish they had bodies like the celebrities on TV, or just sometimes the 18 year old on the beach in her string bikini. As confident as we women are and tell ourselves that we are beautiful just the way we are, nearly everybody has that little feeling in the back of their heads that makes them wonder when they take off their clothes in front of a partner if they like what they see. Are they looking at that flabby tommy, or maybe those stretch marks.

So what do people see in their female partners nude body? Do you see the flaws and just don't care. Do you enjoy seeing them because that is what makes them who they are. Do you not even notice? Do you find your partner more attractive when you are sexually aroused? Would you rather see her completely naked or wearing a piece of lingerie that is conviniently covering up or taking focus away from those imperfections?

[Hugo-B]

I think the average women is more fussy than the average man. I appreciate that getting naked in front of each other is a bigger deal for women than men - usually. Up until the age of 19 I was INCREDIBLY insecure about my body, and didn't even feel comfortable taking my top off at the beach until I was in my late twenties. Men get insecure too.

What I have noticed is that women understandably seem to be more insecure about their bodies after they have had children, since it usually leaves noticeable signs - which of course are not the woman's fault.

To answer the question honestly - yes, I see flaws when I see my GF naked - her body, like mine, is not perfect. Very few people truly have a body which could be called perfect, and the interpretation is subjective.

Do those flaws bother me? Not at all, if they were unbearable I wouldn't be with her. She's had two (beautiful) children and (in her words, not mine) it has "wrecked her boobs and stomach". When I see her naked I see past this because (amongst other reasons) I know we will have AMAZING sex. I am a boob man, and she said becoming a mom sent her from a C cup to an A cup, again, this doesn't bother me. Just because we see something that is not perfect doesn't mean we cannot look at it through loving and cherishing eyes.

We have reached a kind of strange compromise without discussing it, kind of through silent mutual agreement re clothing in the bedroom: she like to keep a top on to cover her boobs and tummy, which is fine with me since it makes her more comfortable. I have a shoe fetish and love girls to leave their heels on and wear a g-string when we have sex, so 99% of the times we have sex that's what happens: she wears heels and a g-string for me, and a top for her own reasons. She does have some outfits like a nurses outfit for example which achieve the same objective of covering her tummy and boobs so it simply depends on the occasion exactly how she disguises these parts, but she does insist on disguising them.

I couldn't really care less, I love how she looks but I go with it because it's important to her.

[Guest]

If I've said this once in here, I've said it a thousand times (and will say it a thousand more if necessary)...

Where you ladies see bumps, bulges and imperfections, the men who love you see nothing but curves!!

[Magnetism]

how does having kids make your breasts smaller? I know I'm going off topic, but how common is that?

[ItsASecret]

how does having kids make your breasts smaller? I know I'm going off topic, but how common is that?

Basically summarized as inflates during pregnancy and deflates after lol. It happens quite often because the hormones are no longer surging to a point of keeping breasts larger and they end up sagging instead with less volume.

[jns]

So what do people see in their female partners nude body? Do you see the flaws and just don't care. Do you enjoy seeing them because that is what makes them who they are. Do you not even notice? Do you find your partner more attractive when you are sexually aroused? Would you rather see her completely naked or wearing a piece of lingerie that is conviniently covering up or taking focus away from those imperfections?

I enjoy the variations because that is what makes an individual truly unique. I really don't notice most flaws. My being sexually aroused does not make her more attractive to me: she's always more attractive to me. Lingerie that teases by selectively covering up and showing parts that are usually hidden is the best; what happens to the variations is immaterial unless they are the focus of attention.

[JonDoe]

So what do people see in their female partners nude body? Do you see the flaws and just don't care. Do you enjoy seeing them because that is what makes them who they are. Do you not even notice? Do you find your partner more attractive when you are sexually aroused? Would you rather see her completely naked or wearing a piece of lingerie that is conviniently covering up or taking focus away from those imperfections?

I have a theory about this. As men get aroused there is less blood flow to the eyes and visual cortex, which acts as a natural filter of imperfections in his mate. Tunnel vision is common, as he focuses all of his attention on the beautiful figure standing, laying, or bending over before him. Most imperfections of the skin all but vanish. He sees only beauty in a willing partner who seeks to increase his already heightened state of arousal. Add a few beers to the mix to enhance the natural Photoshop effect. Sexy lingerie is always welcomed too.