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  • DreamP346
    • Oct 2011
    • 2053

    After sex - what do you do?

    I get really chatty and want to talk, mostly about sex. I don't even mind sitting in the sticky body fluids and cuddling. I become more open to expressing my feelings and fantasies. My husband either wants to go to sleep or get up and get ready.
    Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)
  • ItsASecret
    APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
    • Apr 2009
    • 3721

    We both just lay there tired lol. Then as we are getting dressed we talk about what we need to do for the rest of the day depending on what time it is.
    There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.

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    • Hugo-B
      Veteran Member
      • Jun 2012
      • 957

      I find after the best sex we both fall asleep curled up in each others arms.
      "The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you will ever look" Julius Caesar

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      • DSemcho
        Senior Member
        • Sep 2011
        • 177

        Depends on what is going on for the rest of the day/night.... Usually I lay there while he gets up and cleans himself up and raids the refrigerator.

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        • Guest

          After the euphoria dies down a bit, I love to snuggle in close and hold my SO. Often times we'll doze off to sleep together, sometimes we just lay together in contact with as much of each other as possible.

          I am so blessed!!

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          • DSemcho
            Senior Member
            • Sep 2011
            • 177

            Mine won't cuddle most of the time lol. He's not a very touchy touchy person most of the time. Sometimes it hurts my feelings, but others I know it's just the way he is.

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            • lizzardb63
              Veteran Member
              • Aug 2010
              • 1493

              Usually I go to the bathroom and he cleans up and then we'll usually just cuddle together, maybe watch a movie, talk...or if it's during the day, go back to whatever we were doing before, LOL. But most times we chill together.

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              • InvaderTAQ
                Junior Member
                • Aug 2012
                • 9

                My partner and I usually just talk. We can't cuddle after sex because two of the things that can trigger his epilepsy are heavy breathing, and over heating, so I don't mind not cuddling because I can understand it.

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                • chaya
                  Veteran Member
                  • Sep 2010
                  • 1819

                  It depends on if I enjoyed it or not. If I did, I get cleaned up and go back to bed, cuddle with hubby and daydream myself to sleep.

                  If I didn't enjoy it, which is the norm for me, I get cleaned up, go downstairs and try to relax. Sometimes I cry, like I'm doing right now.
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                  Not thinking about anything is Zen. Once you know this, walking, sitting, or lying down, everything you do is Zen.
                  ― Bodhidharma

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                  • DreamP346
                    • Oct 2011
                    • 2053

                    Originally posted by chaya
                    If I didn't enjoy it, which is the norm for me, I get cleaned up, go downstairs and try to relax. Sometimes I cry, like I'm doing right now.
                    I am sorry to hear that. Hugs from across the computer screen to you.
                    Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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