[redthunder2001]

Question for the ladies or guys if you know how your woman does it dont hesitate to chime in...
Like most guys, I would love to see my lady swallow my cum. I know its not everybody taste and everybody feels differently about it, but i know she has a hard time getting it down because the consistency or texture or whatever freaks her out a little and how i cum cant make it any easier. I have to say she has honestly tried few times in the past. Ive stopped nagging her to try cause i know its tough for her to get past that mental block and ive gotten tired of feeling like im begging. As far as just cumming in her mouth though, she will finish a blowjob all the way. The problem is that I cum hard; maybe a little more volume than the average guy, but as far as strength i sometimes wonder if i could actually shoot down a small plane. It makes her gag like crazy when I spray the back of her throat so hard, which as you can probably guess can be quite a bit of a turn off. She will then run out of the room immediately feeling like she might have to throw up and that is a complete turn off. I dont mind so much that she spits it out (though i would love to see her be able to get it down) but either way the main problem is how i cum. My question is do you have any way of holding or orienting your mouth relative to his penis to avoid your man spraying the back of your throat so hard?

[notlikethenormal]

Like everything it takes practice and fine tuning. What works for me is to relax my jaw and tongue, breathe in deeply and open wider for him. I actually like it as deep as possible though so maybe I've just conditioned myself to be able to enjoy it.

On occation I have had him pull out and I just suck the head, sucking it directly out of the urethra. He enjoys having a little different sensation with my stroking him instead of sucking and I can control where it goes with my tongue.

[redthunder2001]

Yea come to think of it i dont think shes ever really tried to direct it with her tongue or anything like that. Would turning her head so it kinda shot against her cheek work do you think?

[notlikethenormal]

Yep, turning her head or just having a different angle would work I would think. I understand shes not keen on swallowing, but have you tried having her open her mouth and you just cum on her tongue then she can swallow however much she can handle and easily spit the rest.

[Hugo-B]

I always tell him to aim for the tonsils...

[redthunder2001]

Yep, turning her head or just having a different angle would work I would think. I understand shes not keen on swallowing, but have you tried having her open her mouth and you just cum on her tongue then she can swallow however much she can handle and easily spit the rest.

i think the problem with swallowing may be in part from the heavy gagging when i hit the back of her throat. my problem is that it doesnt just come out it fires out except the last shot or so. if i air straight for her tongue it just glances off and hits something else.

[notlikethenormal]

Then aim for the inside of her cheek, just avoid the back of her throat.


Does she have most of the control or do you? If she has the control then, with practice of course, she should be able to control where it goes.

[redthunder2001]

yea i guess well have to give that a try

[redthunder2001]

Bump. Anyone have any other suggestions?

[ItsASecret]

There is nothing you can really do other than have her take it with your penis aimed at her cheek, or if she is really up to it under her tongue. But that instant reaction of choking and gagging when something shoots at the back of your throat cannot be calmed without a lot of practice and for some it can never be calmed to much of an extent. All that can really happen is her getting used to knowing what the feeling feels like and try to mentally separate from the fact of how it feels. The other issue is if she is not so keen on it to begin with she may not be too pleased to have it happen in the first place so the gag reflex will be much more difficult to subdue. But yeah sometimes a woman just cannot ignore what is happening, the texture, the speed of release, the amount, the choking, the eyes watering...I am a woman that cannot do it anymore because of all of the factors.