[danceintx]

So I am 36 years old, and have never once had a g spot orgasm. I have only orgasmed from having sex if my clitoris was being rubbed, and even that hasn't happened real often. I have orgasms from stimulating my clitoris all the time. I have a new bf, and he is WONDERFUL!!!! Well, last night, we were getting busy, and while he was penetrating me, he changed up positions, was hitting my g spot, and I felt like I either orgasmed or came close. I didn't have the whole full body spasms like I do with a clitoral orgasm, but I had the little spasms afterwards. My bf says I did have one because he felt me get very warm and wet inside like when I orgasm. I have read lots of posts about having orgasms from sex and how many people just aren't able to do that, and I had lumped myself in with that group, figuring it just wasn't possible for me. Is it possible I am capable of having orgasms from sex and that I did?? I am excited at the possibility!!

[DSemcho]

Everyone's orgasms are different. For me my abdomen area clamps down and I make wet spots on the bed. But if it helps at all, there technically is no real gspot. What is happening is the back of the clitoris is being hit. So it could just be the position that is being used isn't hitting the part of your clitoris just right. Try different positions, and if he does one where you get really close do something you know will push you over the edge. When that happens to me my husband will grab the back of my head and pull me up to kiss him and then whisper how much he loves me...

[danceintx]

Everyone's orgasms are different. For me my abdomen area clamps down and I make wet spots on the bed. But if it helps at all, there technically is no real gspot. What is happening is the back of the clitoris is being hit. So it could just be the position that is being used isn't hitting the part of your clitoris just right. Try different positions, and if he does one where you get really close do something you know will push you over the edge. When that happens to me my husband will grab the back of my head and pull me up to kiss him and then whisper how much he loves me...

There is no g spot, lol. I really don't think it's the back of my clitoris he's hitting since there is pubic bone behind my clitoris.

[DreamP346]

Sounds like you DID have a G-spot orgasm. That's what it feels like for me. Its just not as forceful as a clit one and I can easily miss it when so many other things are going on with my body. I usually know I had one because I feel relaxed afterwards, but I usually completely miss the actual event happening. My hubby has to tell me I had one.

[danceintx]

Sounds like you DID have a G-spot orgasm. That's what it feels like for me. Its just not as forceful as a clit one and I can easily miss it when so many other things are going on with my body. I usually know I had one because I feel relaxed afterwards, but I usually completely miss the actual event happening. My hubby has to tell me I had one.

I really hope so!! I had so given up on the fact that I was just a non-gspot-orgasm-haver and the fact that I did makes me so happy. I think my bf is pretty proud of himself too!! Lol.

[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

Orgasm is not something that your no sure about; you've either had one or you haven't.

I think there are either small orgasms and big orgasms; many different levels of intensity.

A really powerful orgasm you'll notice profuse sweating like you just hoped out of the sauna - I mean your drenched in sweat (actually I say sweat but I dont really mean sweat because its not really caused by extreme exercise.)

Its some strange reaction to prolonged foreplay.

Other symptoms are very fast heartbeat over 200 beats per minute I could hear her heart beating like a little drum in her chest it was quite loud.

There may have been hyperventilating but I cannot remember it but that doesnt mean she wasnt breathing very deeply and frequently.

Understand that to achieve orgasm it took us most of the night (12 hours)

I spent hours on foreplay NO PENETRATION INITIALLY until finally I entered her (she allowed my to enter her)

So dont get upset and worried if at first you and your partner dont succeed (nothing comes from nothing ...)

My testicles where drawn up after being eroused for so long so in some ways its quite a painful experience until I was inside her.

So you can imagine the state we were in after hours of foreplay both of use were dripping wet

After entering her there was probably a moment before I could feel her keegle muscles spasmodically rythmically and uncontollably contract around me which I must say was quite a shocking experience but the pleasure was indescribable - the slipperly smooth walls of her vagina BARREL starting to bear down on me as I was thrusting in and out - OMG it was just too much to bear before I new it I just let everything go ARRRRRGH !!!! I swear I saw stars and entered some bizarre re-birth / out of body experience which probably sounds strange but that is what it was like.

Some unknown time past before I woke up out of some dream like state / experience it was so quiet and the air was so cold but I felt warm, content, so relaxed, euphoric, and as I looked around the room I could actually see the steam comiing off our bodies as we lay there in the still moonlight.

It was unlike anything that I have ever felt before.

So to answer your question that is what its like.

I dont personally believe in G spot orgasms despite knowing about the paraurethral gland.

[TabbyCole]

Orgasm is not something that your no sure about; you've either had one or you haven't.

I think there are either small orgasms and big orgasms; many different levels of intensity.

A really powerful orgasm you'll notice profuse sweating like you just hoped out of the sauna - I mean your drenched in sweat (actually I say sweat but I dont really mean sweat because its not really caused by extreme exercise.)

Its some strange reaction to prolonged foreplay.

Other symptoms are very fast heartbeat over 200 beats per minute I could hear her heart beating like a little drum in her chest it was quite loud.

There may have been hyperventilating but I cannot remember it but that doesnt mean she wasnt breathing very deeply and frequently.

Understand that to achieve orgasm it took us most of the night (12 hours)

I spent hours on foreplay NO PENETRATION INITIALLY until finally I entered her (she allowed my to enter her)

So dont get upset and worried if at first you and your partner dont succeed (nothing comes from nothing ...)

My testicles where drawn up after being eroused for so long so in some ways its quite a painful experience until I was inside her.

So you can imagine the state we were in after hours of foreplay both of use were dripping wet

After entering her there was probably a moment before I could feel her keegle muscles spasmodically rythmically and uncontollably contract around me which I must say was quite a shocking experience but the pleasure was indescribable - the slipperly smooth walls of her vagina BARREL starting to bear down on me as I was thrusting in and out - OMG it was just too much to bear before I new it I just let everything go ARRRRRGH !!!! I swear I saw stars and entered some bizarre re-birth / out of body experience which probably sounds strange but that is what it was like.

Some unknown time past before I woke up out of some dream like state / experience it was so quiet and the air was so cold but I felt warm, content, so relaxed, euphoric, and as I looked around the room I could actually see the steam comiing off our bodies as we lay there in the still moonlight.

It was unlike anything that I have ever felt before.

So to answer your question that is what its like.

I dont personally believe in G spot orgasms despite knowing about the paraurethral gland.

My Gosh you could write a erotic book! that made me Hot as all get out!
and to the question. I have only had them recently with my soon to be husband. But Its mostly foreplay for me. The new position we tried that really set it off was the lazy dog(I think that is what it is referred too) You laying flat on your belly with your legs together and him on top with his legs on the outside of yours. I love this position its my new favorite, But be creative and try multiple positions to find the right "stimulating" one. Im sure if you think you had one you did. No hurt in trying over and over again to try and match the results of it.

[JonDoe]

Understand that to achieve orgasm it took us most of the night (12 hours)

Seriously? It took 12 hours of foreplay to achieve orgasm?

[ItsASecret]

Orgasm is not something that your no sure about; you've either had one or you haven't.

I think there are either small orgasms and big orgasms; many different levels of intensity.

A really powerful orgasm you'll notice profuse sweating like you just hoped out of the sauna - I mean your drenched in sweat (actually I say sweat but I dont really mean sweat because its not really caused by extreme exercise.)

Its some strange reaction to prolonged foreplay.

Other symptoms are very fast heartbeat over 200 beats per minute I could hear her heart beating like a little drum in her chest it was quite loud.

There may have been hyperventilating but I cannot remember it but that doesnt mean she wasnt breathing very deeply and frequently.

Understand that to achieve orgasm it took us most of the night (12 hours)

I spent hours on foreplay NO PENETRATION INITIALLY until finally I entered her (she allowed my to enter her)

So dont get upset and worried if at first you and your partner dont succeed (nothing comes from nothing ...)

My testicles where drawn up after being eroused for so long so in some ways its quite a painful experience until I was inside her.

So you can imagine the state we were in after hours of foreplay both of use were dripping wet

After entering her there was probably a moment before I could feel her keegle muscles spasmodically rythmically and uncontollably contract around me which I must say was quite a shocking experience but the pleasure was indescribable - the slipperly smooth walls of her vagina BARREL starting to bear down on me as I was thrusting in and out - OMG it was just too much to bear before I new it I just let everything go ARRRRRGH !!!! I swear I saw stars and entered some bizarre re-birth / out of body experience which probably sounds strange but that is what it was like.

Some unknown time past before I woke up out of some dream like state / experience it was so quiet and the air was so cold but I felt warm, content, so relaxed, euphoric, and as I looked around the room I could actually see the steam comiing off our bodies as we lay there in the still moonlight.

It was unlike anything that I have ever felt before.

So to answer your question that is what its like.

I think this is great and all if you change all of that to "my wife/SO and I describe it as this:" or "my wife/SO reacts like this:" rather than saying an orgasm for a woman should be profusely sweating, ~12 hour sex sessions occur, hyperventilating, etc. A woman new to G spot orgasms could become very taken back by that amount of effort (hours and hours) and the extreme bodily reactions such as hyperventilation and profuse sweating to the point of questioning if she is ever going to be able to achieve a G-spot orgasm. What works for one woman does not mean it will be the same in another so it is a matter of trying different things to see if this or that works.

[jns]

12 hours of sex and profuse sweating could upset one's electrolyte balance unless there were time outs for hydration, meals, etc. With an electrolyte imbalance, muscles could spasm and lock up. But like other extreme situations, you could have an out of body experience.