[bowsandroses]

Hello,

So, lately, whenever my boyfriend and I have sex, we have decided to talk about our fantasies (yes, during sex. It turns us both on to know what we would do to each other). Most of the fantasies we have, surprisingly, we share. There is one fantasy that we both share that actually turns me on and I would love to try one day. (Excuse the language) but I would kind of want to know what it would be like to be '****ed in the face' (not just a normal blowjob). Has anyone ever tried this and have any tips on what to do if you have a horrible gag reflex. I know boyfriend is up for it and I am too, but it makes me a little nervous. Any tips are welcomed!

[DreamP346]

You can try the numbing gels. They really help with the gag reflec.

[Darling]

I love talking about our sexual fantasies, we have learned a lot about each other and have had a lot of fun.

I have tried what you are talking about. It's not anything I like but like that he likes it lol. I just push him off a bit when i gag. It doesn't bother him he just doesn't go as deep until I pull him further in again.

[rcoreyus]

You should decide if the fantasy is just the "forced" aspect, or his really going deep. If it is just the forced aspect you can play that way without having the bad gagging problem (he can use his hand to limit how deep he goes).

you can also practice with a toy to see if you can manage to take something deep without gagging, or throwing up.

For any sort of force-like play, be sure you have a safe word (or in this case since you won't be able to speak, a safe gesture), that will end the game if either of you needs to.