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Yes, my last partner said that he didn't need to masturbate, because he had me. When living with him, I never saw him masturbate. Even during sex, he didn't do any jerking off motions. Some men do jerk off during sex when ejaculating a woman or during oral sex. I think it's possible that some men don't masturbate. Another man I knew said he just felt very gay doing it."Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet" -
He says pretty much the same thing. "I don't need to, I have you. " I assumed all guys did. I mainly hung out with guys in grade school. I remember certain guys who began talking about it as soon as puberty hit.Yes, my last partner said that he didn't need to masturbate, because he had me. When living with him, I never saw him masturbate. Even during sex, he didn't do any jerking off motions. Some men do jerk off during sex when ejaculating a woman or during oral sex. I think it's possible that some men don't masturbate. Another man I knew said he just felt very gay doing it.
I guess I just thought it was odd since he would encorage me to mastrubate to find out what I like.Comment
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When I was in grade school, there were boys that openly said masturbation was gross....unless they were lying and doing it in private. To say that all men masturbate is like saying that most women don't masturbate or that most women hate porn."Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"Comment
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I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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I've never masturbated when I have been getting enough sex unless it was part of the sex itself.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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