[KiltedScotsman]

Hi ladies id like your views and advice on circumcision.

I recently started dating a girl from Canada who has been living and dating guys here in Scotland for about a year now. She was used to guys being circumcised in Canada and said she noticed straight away how much more sensitive uncircumcised guys are compared to circumcised. She told me when she first started playing with guys over here she was making them cum really fast because she was being too rough although this was as rough as she normally would be with a circumcised guy.

I've never been the most impressive when it comes to stamina and I admit I sometimes cant last too long. When I was younger I was probably suffering from premature ejaculation (sex wud last less than a minute most times) but over the years I've managed to improve it by learning to slow down, breath, takes breaks and pull out to calm myself down if I have to.

My question is have any other women noticed that uncircumcised men are more sensitive and cum faster than circumcised man?

Im considering the possibility of getting circumcised to see if this will help me to last longer but does this seem too extreme a solution?

Any views or advice would be appreciated.

Thanks

[Little]

There are two very recent threads concerning circumcision, so sorry if you don't get a lot of views or replies.

My husband is intact and has no issues lasting - in fact, he lasts so long it's practically a problem. You should probably view your endurance issues as independent of your having foreskin.

[KiltedScotsman]

There are two very recent threads concerning circumcision, so sorry if you don't get a lot of views or replies.

My husband is intact and has no issues lasting - in fact, he lasts so long it's practically a problem. You should probably view your endurance issues as independent of your having foreskin.

Ok thanks. Sorry if im repeating older posts but i just came across the site tonight.

For me I just feel that im very sensitive which makes it difficult to last for a long period of time. I guess the sensitivity varies from guy to guy and your husband seems to be one of the lucky ones lol

[Stillness]

Welcome, KiltedScotsman. I ran across some research while engaged in one of the other circumcision discussions. I don't think that this was specifically discussed. The difference between delay before ejaculation for uncircumcised v. circumcised men was notable from a scientific perspective, but not great from a practical one. It was a matter of tens of seconds. If I remember correctly it was around 6.5 minutes for circumcised men and just over 6 minutes for uncircumcised. In some studies men who started off uncut but got a circumcision after they had become sexually active reported heightened sensitivity, as counterintuitive as that may sound.

[Little]

No worries, this is a personal request for help, which the other threads weren't - just that some people may not click because they're done with the subject.

Consider that there are plenty of circumcised men with oversensitivity issues. And if you get circumcised now, you will still never have the kind of scarring on the head of the penis that men circumcised as infants have, due to the forcible separation of the glans and foreskin (they're fused for the first year of life or more!) You should be able to work by yourself to decrease sensitivity, perhaps through masturbation.

[Ratty]

Hi KiltedScotsman!

My advice? DO NOT CONSIDER CIRCUMCISION!

Seriously, it is too extreme a solution. Something you may want to consider though is to use a condom that has a desensitising gel in it such as Durex Performax. It is basically a very mild anaesthetic which decreases the amount of sensitivity in the head of your penis which should allow you to last longer.

Also, communication with your partner is essential, if she is being too forceful with you and making you climax too soon tell her so (in as kind a manner as possible so as not to appear too critical of her technique of course, don't want to hurt her feelings after all!) and if necessary, show her how you like to be manhandled (pun intended!).

Believe me, your foreskin is an asset worth keeping cos you'll miss it when it's gone and there is no going back once you've had the snip!

Enjoy your willy the way it was meant to be!

[Hugo-B]

Read 'the multi orgasmic man' and practice the exercises in there religiously if you want to last longer. Your GF's personal observations are just that - personal observations - and whilst I'm a big believer in taking notice of people who speak from an empirical perspective, I wouldn't let her experiences convince you that circumcision is the answer to lasting longer in the sack.

I'm not circumcised and I'm very, very sensitive, so sensitive in fact that if a girl is too vigorous I'm more likely to lose my erection from discomfort than cum quickly. During my early twenties and late teens (I say late but I didn't start having sex until I was 19) I prematurely ejaculated 95% of the times I had sex, I never got circumcised (although I would have if I thought it would have solved my problem, and I did look into it) and now at 32 I don't have that problem any more.

Unless you want to be circumcised for your own, personal reasons, I would forget about it as an option to cure/combat PE. Get yourself a copy of the book I recommended as a start and strengthen that PC muscle, and don't slack off once you see results, like any muscle it needs to be worked regularly to remain strong.

Have a chat with your doctor about cialis, that stuff seems to help a lot of men last longer and even if it doesn't you'll be able to get hard again virtually instantly after ejaculating... They last around 72 hours, I used to take 20mg as a treat for me and my GF when we went away for the weekend and it's great stuff. Even at 32 I've noticed I can't have sex as frequently as I could seven years ago (although reading that back it sounds like a long time).

Good luck :-)

[Blukitti]

My husband (who is circumcised) also has sensitivity issues. How we have resolved this is he brings me to orgasm first, through oral sex usually, and then he gets his orgasm, however he wants it. Please your lady first, then yourself. Everyone wins. Don't get circumcised over this. Be glad you are an intact man!

[Nholland]

I was under the impression that yes uncircumsized men are more sensitive but this also makes them harder which is nice so its a trade off. And i read that the average length of sex is only 5-6minutes.. This sounds short but is normal so u may be underestimating urself. If its not long enough for ur gf take longer during foreplay, its a much easier fix then circumsision and very effective