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  • physicsnerd
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    • Sep 2012
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    Wow! I mean, really! Y'all have no idea but, all of your replies have been immensely helpful! Thank you, all, so, so much. Maybe it's just getting input from others who can relate but, thank you, all!

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    • oxy-moron
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      • Oct 2010
      • 551

      Originally posted by physicsnerd
      Thoughts? Suggestions? .
      Hi- It sounds like you are left brain dominant. You need to do some research on oxytocin and how it effects your body and behaviour in relationships. Oxytocin is the human relationship hormone. When its levels are boosted it will naturally close down the parts of the brain that inhibit orgasm. It also powers orgasmic contractions.
      Get into some long slow massage sessions with your partner- Tantric massage will boost Oxytocin but other skin to skin massage will also boost it. Do 30 Mins of soft skin contact massage using body butter or massage oils. This should be all over massage not just genital.

      Good luck

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