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  • This guy that guy
    Junior Member
    • Sep 2012
    • 1

    Average or small :(

    My penis while soft is roughly 4 1/2" and hard it's about 6-6 1/2". Some of my friends were talking about theirs and one said it was 7" soft and 11 1/2" hard... It kinda worried me. Am I to little or will I do just fine?
  • CHANDLERS WISH
    • Mar 2008
    • 22440

    Get them to show you theirs, errect and non-errect, bet they are fibbing to you big time.

    Most women would also find 11 or more to be way to much and non-exciting..

    You're the winner
    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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    • Claret
      Assistant Admin
      • Jan 2011
      • 1823

      It may also depend upon how they are measuring. If you push in towards the pubic bone you get a bigger number than if you just place a measure alongside or if you measure on the top versus along the bottom. Just saying...
      That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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      • Hugo-B
        Veteran Member
        • Jun 2012
        • 957

        I measure mine from the butt crack so I always get a satisfactory measurement :-)
        "The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you will ever look" Julius Caesar

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        • jns
          Assistant Admin
          • Mar 2010
          • 8398

          Why is it almost always someone average or above average that is worried. The fact is that there are few with a true 11 1/2 inches and larger out there. They tend to hurt the girls they are with if they fully insert. Like bb's joke, maybe it is a matter of optimistic measuring; or it could be lying. If you want bragging points, measure yours in centimeters. Or forget about measurements and be happy with what you got and how girls respond to you.
          I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
          ...
          Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

          From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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          • hoonos
            Junior Member
            • Mar 2012
            • 4

            I think a lot of these threads are started by guys who just like to hear they are above average and want to hear validation.
            Guys who are actually smaller than average, (<5 inches long and <5 inches in circumference" know they are small and
            also know that only a liar would tell them they "measure up" to most women's expectations.
            Doesn't mean the smaller guys will get not action. But they do know they will be fighting an uphill
            battle if they are following the "average" guy who is sporting over six inches.

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            • Guest

              Since when has the size of the boat had anything to do with the motion in the ocean? or, Regardless of the size of the tools you've been given, it's up to you to master your craft!

              To all your buddies, or whoever, that claim to be this or that, to what do they make love or share physical intimacy? Seeing as how the average size/depth of an unaroused vagina is about 4" and the size/depth of an aroused one is 5 - 7".

              So, using their "logic", A) their oversized flacid penis doesn't double in size when aroused, but B) a woman's vagina does..or must in order to accommodate their porn star like monster penis.

              Yeah, sure....

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              • ItsASecret
                APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
                • Apr 2009
                • 3721

                Guys who are actually smaller than average, (<5 inches long and <5 inches in circumference" know they are small and
                also know that only a liar would tell them they "measure up" to most women's expectations.
                Doesn't mean the smaller guys will get not action. But they do know they will be fighting an uphill
                battle if they are following the "average" guy who is sporting over six inches.
                If you actually believe that women have "expectations" about size then you are mistaken. If we are heterosexual we simply care that he has a penis. Women do not sit there wishing for or hoping that a penis is x size and anything below that is no good or just not up to par. Women are not fixated on that body part the way men may be fixated on their woman needing to have x size of breasts or butt or lips or whatever. We simply do not care in such a manner that we sit there comparing one vs. another. Some men may think we do because they want to believe that it is that important, that validation, that ego trip....however women simply do not fixate on penis size. Sure there are some that will be rude to a guy about his size because they want a big penis but that certainly does not represent the whole. What women want in sex is to be pleased and that does not mean the pleasure is associated with solely the penis. So no there is no uphill battle for a guy that is 5 inches vs one that is an average 6.
                There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.

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                • PinkySweet
                  Senior Member
                  • Mar 2011
                  • 168

                  Most men lie about their size lol.. Dont worry. You average from what Ive heard Id think most women prefer 7-9" erect? Or that may just be me.

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                  • hoonos
                    Junior Member
                    • Mar 2012
                    • 4

                    ItsASecret:

                    If the guy has 5 inches, he is average. If he's under that, he isn't.

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