[muffin70]

well I am probably in Topaz's husbands situation... i too have a small penis and I am a little 'chunky' as Topaz put it - I've lost 20+ kgs since being diagnosed type 2 diabetic 17yrs ago though, but still need to lose some more. My wife is also quite large (she won't mind me saying that because she doesn't go on any forums!).
Size should not be an issue whether it's penis size or the size of you and your hubby.... bigger people can have perfectly normal sex... some positions can be a bit 'akward' or not achieveble though.
I would love to slip in behind my wife while we are lying on our side in bed, but my stomach and her butt get in the way and my penis is not long enough to penetrate her that way.
However, as others have suggested your husband may be able to please you in other ways - my wife loves it when I stimulate her clit with my fingers and she will always orgasm that way, so get him to stimulate you in other ways using his hands, mouth and or toys.

The one thing I would not do is come straight out and tell him sex does not satisfy you, because that may make him feel insecure...... my ex GF did that many years ago and it ruined our relationship (hence the reason she is my 'ex')

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I'm going to disagree with the size don't matter statement that's totally not true! It going to matter both ways for different people or this topic would never occurred. I could see how being over weight would put a barrier in the way of pleasure or penetration. I never had that issue I'm very petite and have always dated slender or athletic guys. I don't know if you could tell a guy he needs to loose some weight I think it would be received wrong just like it would to a women. Maybe both getting involved with an activity that could improve both of your level of fitness and health might be a way to eventually loose the extra pounds. But I think its more about the natural need for satisfaction I can understand that. My high school sweetie and now husband who is very well endowed 8 1/2" long and 6 3/4" around is amazing. We had broke up after we graduated and went our own ways. I would find sex un satisfying with other guys then over look it and it would work out for awhile. Then that need to be stretched out and filled up became over whelming. That was part of what brought us back together and that we are in love totally. I read other it doesn't matter so much but I think some of us who have high sex drives and experience know what we like and need. My only answer is sex toys for a quick fix, but getting fit and healthy is very important as well. Good luck

Holy cow dude. 6 3/4 around? in inches? That sound freakishly thick. I have never measured my goods, and maybe I am just not visualing it correctly, but it sounds so wide that I think it woukd barely fit into a 2 car garage.

I probably should go grab a measuring tape to see what 6 and 3/4 around looks like. I dunno, maybe I am exaggerating it in my head because I have never been good at visualizing or estimating measurements that involve distance.

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