[donna1966]

my husband prefers to ejaculate on me than sex is this disrespectfull or is he not intersted in sex with me..

[Little]

Well, you can't know for sure unless you ask him, but ...
It could be a dominance thing. Some guys are like that.
Or he could have a fear of getting you pregnant. If you're married, that might not be an issue, but sometimes men have fears that may seem irrational, just like anybody might.
I doubt that he's uninterested in sex with you ... is this a "pulling out" technique or is he not engaging in sex with you at all?
Good luck.

[donna1966]

hi thanks, well he gives me oral sex then me him and he finishes by ejaculating on me not inside,

[krisnb517]

I've wondered about this too...in my case though the guy always wanted to masturbate while playing with my chest then come on them...we did other things too but sex never went well and he always was worried about getting me pregnant also.

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Guys like to ejaculate on girls, and to see their cum. It is also likely that a man can stimulate himself to a better orgasm than you can.

(I'm a man)

I like to end sex for myself in alternate ways to the normal sometimes, and it often provides more mental stimulation as well, as it's dirty, sloppy etc. Perhaps there is something about marking my territory embedded deep within me, but it's not the first reason I'd cite.

I do it to my gf, and I don't see it as disrespectful, but then I'm a dom she's a sub so....


A bit weird if that's ALWAYS what happens.


If you don't like it, try sucking him off instead, he'll be even happier if you swallow it.

[Little]

You make it sound so routine ... just oral sex exchanged and bam, you're done! Don't let your sex life get old and stale. Spice it back up! Are you using any kind of contraceptive? Birth control pills?
To answer your question, I don't think it's disrespectful; my boyfriend often ejaculates on my chest or on my back if we finish doggy style. If he insists on doing it still, have him clean you up afterwards; it's kind of sweet and sensual to finish off the sex act.
Or, like anonymouswhitefemale said, try swallowing. The great part about it is that you can keep the stimulation going while he is having his orgasm ... some guys don't like it, I hear, but from what I've seen it drives them crazy
You've just gotta take back control of your sex life. Good luck!

[manxie]

my boyfriend likes to cum on me too, particularly my face. He gets a huge kick out of it and i like that to be honest. I don't see it as a big thing really though as i've been sat on his face and soaked him lots of times as well.

[metboogie]

I still don't get cumming on a girls face - it really is gross...and a total mood killer if I get it in her eye, or hair, or up her nose...just too many people thinking what is done in porn is actually normal.

Anyhow, as for the original post - it doesn't seem that you actually have vaginal sex - is that correct? It seems like all you have is oral sex and when he's ready to cum his preferred method is on your chest (although if you were willing to swallow I don't know why he wouldn't take that).

So this leads me to asking - have you actually had vaginal sex? If not, why? When I was 19 my GF was a virgin so we employed the oral is moral theory...but that didn't last too long.

If you are both non-virgins, than I'm REALLY interested to know what his deal is...especially if he's willing to give you oral...