[inquisitive1]

Do you want to marry this guy? Does he want to marry you? Are you that committed yet to eachother? I'd say just marry the guy since you're 20 and at a point in your life when you can-IF you truly love eachother and want to be with eachother forever. I'd say you're still a virgin, but boy are you cutting it close! Keep your clothes on until you can get married-it will be well worth the wait, trust me!! You're wedding night will be the best thing ever!!!!

I agree with sexymamaof4. There were some other very valid points as well, but this was the first thing that came to my mind. You are cutting it close and it will be worth the wait! If that's what you choose to do. Decide if you do or don't want to abstain from premarital sex as Irelandlover stated. If you do, I would strongly suggest you keep your clothes on during that activity. Try not to be embarrashed by your question. I would also like to welcome you to the forum as I noticed this is your first thread!

[Guest]

Virginity is what every individual makes of it...

What I make of it is... that sure, it's a state of mind, but it can also be penetration.

[Fallen1]

As stated by others, virginity means different things to different people. I myself believe that your virginity is lost once penetration has been made.