[LadyLane]

It sounds like this is your first love and possibly you're first consistent sexual relationship. And that makes it feel like it is impossible for you to let it go and get out of it.

I don't know what your sex life would be like together after five years... could be scorching hot. But do you want to be with someone who in five years will still have a wife and you will always come second? By the time you are 27 I hope you'll want more than what he's got to offer.

[C]

You are still so young. Life is all learning. This will not be the last person that you love, but let this affair end. You break free by saying no more. The more sex you have the more you will want. He knows this. What he will be like in five years makes no difference. What you will be like in five years does. His situation probably will never change and you will have wasted five years of your life. Such a beautiful time in life to throw out the window. And for what?

You were foolish getting into this but let it be a lesson. A learning of the pitfalls of love and grow from it. Think of the knowledge you have gained and put this under lessons learned in life. Don't knock yourself, you are a wonderful woman. But next time make a man worthy of who you are as a woman. He is not.

Go places where young people meet. Even if you do not fall in love, find yourself again. You truly never know what lies around the corner.....Much luck.....C