[a_dub]

If you're a woman, its pretty much a certainty that somewhere, some guy thinks about you when he masturbates. Contrary to popular belief, men don't always masturbate thinking of a porn. Although I watch porn several times a week, 99.9% of the time I jerk off to some girl I know, and not the porn start I just watched. It might be an old crush, a new girl I've just met, an older woman I've known for years, the next door neighbor, the hot Brazilian girl who lives in my building, etc. Me and my old roomates once discussed the girls we jerked off too and we had several in common...which was kinda weird.

So are woman aware that guys get their jollies off to them? And how does it feel to know you have that kinda power over someone somewhere (besides your husband or BF)?

[danceintx]

I think it would be hot to have a guy masterbate to thinking of me. Although if my bf told me that I probably would think he was just saying that :-D

[a_dub]

Fantasies are just that a fantasy and don't live up to expectations. Just remember, even hot women had men cheat on them, or a husband that see her as a nagging demanding wife

Well everyone's tastes are different. And besides maybe that hot woman is a super nag, but thats not what guys think about when they're tugging!

[ItsASecret]

Not exactly a nice thought to me. My bf doing it to me is of course no issue but some random guy is kinda creepy. If it were an attractive guy I think I would feel slightly better to think I have some sort of "power" as you say but if it is some creepy 'stare at any woman in proximity' type guy then yeah I will get the willies just thinking about it. Thinking of a man doing themselves to potentially any woman they see in their day sort of affirms a woman's viewpoint that some men are constantly looking for a woman to sexually pursue in some manner...in this case masturbating to.

[lavi]

I dont know..never thought abt this.But think its somewhat creepy.

[shoshannah]

When a previous boyfriend (with whom I never had sex) told me he did, it took me a while to get used to the idea. With my current boyfriend I obviously don't mind at all, although almost all of his sexual release is with me and not with masturbating (although before we started having sex I didn't mind him doing it either). As for other guys doing it, I just try not to think about it because I don't like the idea but there's nothing I can do about it.

[a_dub]

Thinking of a man doing themselves to potentially any woman they see in their day sort of affirms a woman's viewpoint that some men are constantly looking for a woman to sexually pursue in some manner...in this case masturbating to.

Yeah but isn't that obvious. If men never pursued women for anything sexual humanity would have long since died out.

I don't think its creepy if you happen to cop a stare at the girl from the library and think she's so hot that you need to visit the bathroom as soon as you go home, lol. But maybe I feel that way cuz its happened to me way too many times. Either way it doesn't harm anyone. I figured every guy does it at some stage. I do it almost religiously and my old roomates did it too. I figured since we were such a varied group of guys all men must do it at some stage. A 45 year old [happily] married man who's jerking off in the shower might well be beating it to his 25 year old secretary, who he knows isn't interested in him at all, has a BF, and whom he would never even think of being with, not because he's creepy, but because its a harmless way of releasing the very real lust he feels towards her.

[ItsASecret]

Yeah but isn't that obvious. If men never pursued women for anything sexual humanity would have long since died out.

There is a difference between men pursuing women for the sole purpose of reproduction, in the case of needing sex for humanity to keep going, and the certain men who hound women in any way they can in hopes they can get any form of sexual interaction with them. Whether that be bothering her by flirting when she clearly does not want it, thinking they can approach a woman and smooth talk her into bed, meeting a new girl and automatically thinking of a way to get her into bed or any other such events that make it seem like some men are constantly on the lookout for some way to pursue women in a sexual manner. Big difference between the humanity needs sex to keep lives going matter and the creep who stares, pursues, drools, and maybe masturbate to anything with boobs within a 50 foot radius lol.

I don't think its creepy if you happen to cop a stare at the girl from the library and think she's so hot that you need to visit the bathroom as soon as you go home, lol. But maybe I feel that way cuz its happened to me way too many times.

Looking at a woman is not a problem, everyone will look at people in their day and if they happen to be attractive then so be it. However going to the bathroom to masturbate right after you see that woman is to me creepy. She is out at the library minding her own business lol I am not so sure she was wanting to be someone's tug material as soon as someone sees her. She could be like many other women and simply think that when someone sees her they simply look, maybe they have a thought of she is attractive and on goes the day...I have my doubts that in those thoughts she is thinking "**** I wish any random guy that looks at me will go use me as masturbating material later!" lol.

Either way it doesn't harm anyone. I figured every guy does it at some stage. I do it almost religiously and my old roomates did it too. I figured since we were such a varied group of guys all men must do it at some stage. A 45 year old [happily] married man who's jerking off in the shower might well be beating it to his 25 year old secretary, who he knows isn't interested in him at all, has a BF, and whom he would never even think of being with, not because he's creepy, but because its a harmless way of releasing the very real lust he feels towards her.

I do think a lot of men do that or maybe they just make up a girl in their head instead of picture someone they saw at the bus stop or whatever. The question though was how women feel about being the object, she may not be thinking it so awesome and also may not think it is harmless if she is very bothered by it. Some women like that sort of attention though and being the "material" for masturbating may fall into her personal 'like' category of attention and they could get their jollies off from it as you say. All women are different in their opinions though so I am not sure what majority opinion of women on the subject would be.

[jns]

Guys may be more explicit about it and a_dub certainly says how things are at least for a certain portion of the guys out there, but women can have anticipation and fantasies about guys they don't really know, also.

[a_dub]

Guys may be more explicit about it and a_dub certainly says how things are at least for a certain portion of the guys out there, but women can have anticipation and fantasies about guys they don't really know, also.

I'd think most, if not all guys are like that. Most guys went to high school where there was a particular girl that all the guys drooled over, and of course that age that means they all had to jerked off thinking about her at some point. Our school had em. Even our French teacher was a total babe who all the boys agreed was smoking, especially when she spoke French. Maybe at some point those teenagers mature into more civilized men, I dunno. All I know is if thats the case then I'm still in my teen years, lol.