[I_Have_Questions]

Hello everyone,
A while back a posted a thread about not being able to orgasm, and i got some responses that I should use a vibrator and see how that went.
So i followed your advice and got a vibrator, and I believe that I have orgasmed.
However, could you clarify some points for me?
-After you orgasm, do you feel like you want more?
-I feel like a numbness (warmth) that spreads through the vaginal area and then a series of contractions... I am taking these to be the orgasm, am I right?
-After feeling this, I can keep going... so did i achieve an orgasm or is it just some sort of prep thing my body does?

thx!

[Guest]

Um... -thinks about this one-

Well, for one, I'm glad you thought about yourself. Making yourself happy comes before anything else.

After an orgasm, it varies how I feel. Sometimes I can go for more, but others I kinda just feel too tired or I'm still too sensitive, so I go off and get fat off expresso mint ice cream (yum!).
I can imagine numbness if you're rubbing too hard or something, but the I don't see how you connect warmth with numbness... I'm so lost. The contractions are normal, but I don't think it's an orgasm. Maybe instead of vaginal stuff you should try clitoral stimulation instead (if you haven't).
Like I said before, it varies from person to person how long they can go for.

I hope that helped... I have no idea if it did.

[laney]

you'll know if you have an orgasm!!!!!its like wooooooo(with a long o)!like ravsoma mine have never entailed numbness or warmth,sweat yes.im not braging but im one of the lucky ones i can have multiple orgasms.its WONDERFULL.for me they didnt happen at first.no matter how unexpierenced though you'll know when you've had one.best of luck.P.S.like ravsome said try clitoral stimulation that can bring you to orgasm all by itself.

[bluesapphire315]

Like what the other ladies said, You would know if you had an orgasm for sure, and its amazing. Clitoral stimulation works quite well, and from what I hear from other women, that is what causes them to orgasm. Sometimes after orgasm you are too sensitive to want any more, other times you are ready for round two...so it can have different effects. Best of luck!!

[I_Have_Questions]

well, I am stimulation the clit... that's when I feel the most.
By warmth/numbness i mean that i get like a wave-like feeling that takes over the entire area, and the best way i can describe it is by that.. it gets to a point where i feel almost paralyzed, but that's not even it, i dont really know how to describe it...


so, you are telling me that those contractions do not correspond to an orgasm? because they feel pretty good and they feel like what I would expect an orgasm to be... but then again... I am clueless

[Guest]

...I really don't know what to tell you... -lost-

[sourpuss]

It's my understanding that the vagina contracts after orgasm.

[Little]

I get sort of pleasantly tingly and numb all over post-orgasm ... at least the really amazing ones.

[bluesapphire315]

Well after I orgasm, my vagina does contract...sorry I didn't even answer that part of the question last time...When I orgasm I can feel it build to the point of going over the edge, it feels fantastic and for me it goes through my entire body...thats just how I orgasm, thats the best I can describe it...I am sure that its different for everyone

[I_Have_Questions]

yeah, that what i meant....tingly....