[lauren922]

My boyfriends birthday is coming up and since I'm a student I dont exactly have much money. My friend suggested getting all dressed up and making him dinner or a few things lie that but he actually hates lacy underwear. I would like to do something like this for him though since I havent done it before but no idea what to do. Any suggestions would be useful for me

[JonDoe]

I absolutely love when my wife is topless wearing jeans or wears nothing but a pair of black, thigh-high stockings and heels. You could greet him wearing nothing more than a hat and scarf or cook for him wearing only an apron (Target $5.58 - $19.99). Look in your closet and be creative. What might seem silly to you will drive him wild. Remember guys are simple, visual creatures.

[rcoreyus]

You don't need to spend money on this. Can you tell from his earlier reactions what sort of things he likes? Sometimes a long t-shirt and nothing else can be as sexy as any lingerie. Are there any sexual activities that he has hinted that he likes that you don't normally do? Maybe have him come home to find you wearing nothing but a ribbon and a gift card that says you are his for the evening? Or on the other end, let him know that he needs his birthday spanking? People are so different that its difficult to guess for someone else.

[DreamP346]

It really depends on what he likes but here are some suggestions:

1) make coupon(s) of sexual and/or romantic activities. You can include things like "Free blow job", "full body massage", "sexy shower", etc

2) when he walks in the door, greet him with a beer and immediately get on your knees and give him oral

3) prepare a sex buffet. Lay out all your sex toys, sexy clothes, and other items that may be fun to play with like camera, candles, massage oil, board games with a sex twist (google to find suggestions). Tell him he can pick whatever he wants to do and that you have all night to do them.

4) present him with the 4 B's that most men love (once again, depends on what your bf likes) doing them all at the same time: beer, bacon, blowjob and boobs. Hand him a beer, a BLT, sit him infront of the TV/computer showing some busty porn while you go down on him.

Have fun.

[JonDoe]

beer, bacon, blowjob and boobs. Hand him a beer, a BLT, sit him in front of the TV/computer showing some busty porn while you go down on him.

Once again, undisputed proof that bacon makes anything better!

You don't even need the porn, just go topless! After all, he is going to be watching you while you please him.

[Guest]

Turn up the heat in the house, depending on where you live, so you aren't cold (literally) and then just put on one of his "dress" shirts. A woman wearing a shirt that belongs to their man is considered hot and sexy by many men.

Candles can be inexpensive...so buy a few and place them in safe places throughout one room and stand in the middle of that room as you unbutton his shirt you're wearing to reveal A)a thong or something else he enjoys, or B)nothing but your hot naked body.

Now turn around with your butt facing him, bend over slowly and flip the tail of his shirt up to reveal your butt. Legs apart, legs together is up to you. A lot of men love this view.

It doesn't take $$$$ to make something extra special...it just takes some creativity, thinking outside the box and additional thought.

Have fun with it.

[Element]

Well I do believe that the others (un)covered a lot of the sexual gifts you could give him. (btw, I am so stealing some of those ideas, so thank you to all of you's.) But on the off chance that you and your boyfriend do not have a sexual relationship, I thought I'd toss in some ideas where the clothes stay on.

Picnics are always a nice choice. If it's too cold where you are; then have it inside on the living room floor. A walk around downtown together is always a nice way to get out and about while not spending any cash. There is the idea you posted about making him dinner, you can also plug in his favorite movie and watch that together while eating dinner, or after dinner with you two curled up together. Hitting a comedy club can be a good idea if he's into that scene, it'd be easy to find a place with a cheap $5 cover fee. If he's into gaming online or video games, then sit down with him and play with him. Or watch him and interact with him. I know; not always fun. But it is his birthday, so doing things he likes is a must.

There is also the option of telling him it's "his day". He chooses what you two will do, eat; the day is his for his creating. If you two have a very open relationship, tell him the money that you have to spend on his day, that way he can more thoroughly create his day.

[Guest]

Draw a hot bath after dinner for him...wait seven to ten minutes and then join him in it!

Sorry, but showers aren't the same...