[inquisitive1]

I don't feel sexy anymore. I just don't feel it. I know it's my issues of that I'm sure. I just feel like I lost my mojo or something and I don't have a clue where to look or even begin to search to get it back.

[Guest]

Maybe you are sexy and you can't see it. It could quite possibly just be a plateau. You'll get your sexy back. It happens to everyone.

[sourpuss]

Maybe you are sexy and you can't see it. It could quite possibly just be a plateau. You'll get your sexy back. It happens to everyone.

That made me laugh....good line.

inquizitive1, why not spend some time and money on yourself? Go and get your hair done, buy a new outfit that looks good on you. Spend some cash on a sexy pair of bra and underwear.

[LadyLane]

I always find that a good "girly" day does it for me. Sounds cheesy, but hitting the tanning booth (no judgements, please, I need it sometimes), getting a mani/pedi, a blowout, eyebrows threaded, bikini wax. Then even if no one sees me or I'm just doing mommy errands and stuff, I feel pretty. Or even just some new makeup can do it.

I know what you mean though. You have those periods where you just feel like a lump of blah.

[Nightelf]

I have to agree with the other posters. I never feel more pretty, sexy and desirable than after having my hair done or some other girly activity. But on the other hand you have survived a really horrific and traumatic experience and you will have to face those demons regularly. I dont think that there is a woman that can claim that she doesnt have an "off" time when she doesnt feel sexy, and that is just in normal life.
I know you are a strong person, it comes through in your posts. Remember what a wonderful, incredible and gorgeous woman you are, daily. Turn it into your morning mirror mantra.

Like was said above... you will get your sexy back

[tommyr]

Do you exercise? I define exercise as heavy breathing, vigorous sweating, muscles burning, feeling lightheaded from the action, want to stop but keep on going ?

Does that sound like it would help in the "feeling sexy" department?

[inquisitive1]

Maybe you are sexy and you can't see it. It could quite possibly just be a plateau. You'll get your sexy back. It happens to everyone.

Hey Ravsoma-
Thanks for the laugh!

[inquisitive1]

Do you exercise? I define exercise as heavy breathing, vigorous sweating, muscles burning, feeling lightheaded from the action, want to stop but keep on going ?

Does that sound like it would help in the "feeling sexy" department?

tommyr-
Definitely! Nothing like one's own words coming back to them. Thank you.

[inquisitive1]

Thank You !

I thank you all for the great responses!

[bellababe]

bringing sexy back

to steal that phrase, LOL. It's funny that we all kind of have the same feelings about this. A mani/pedi maybe a new haircut, a sexy bra and panties. maybe a long hot bath, with the candles going. just to breathe and relax. if you feel sexy you are sexy.