[Sarah44]

I was with a bloke a few weeks back and he was utter rubish in bed,
I am not a person to tell them to get off so i just got on with it and faked an orgasam.

He really went with it too.

Also my mate sent me this link of people orgsaming, and you just see there faces, nothing too rude.

I cant tell if its a fake.... can you tell when people are faking an orgasam?


thanks

Sarah

x

[xxjanexx]

ohhh wow thats so cool,

i am glad to see somthing real,

seeing all these pornstars is so fake,

this is great!

where can i see more???

[rcoreyus]

There are online "amateur" porn sites that have real exhabitionist couples having sex and enjoying themselves with real orgasms. Some softcore, some hardcore. There are of course also fake "amateur" sites with professionals.

I suspect I will get yelled at if I suggest a specific site.

As far as faking orgasms: I'm sure some people can do it well, some badly - but except on rare occasions please dont! If you fake it badly, your lover may feel lied to. If you fake it well, your lover may not be able to figure out what pleases you. If yoru lover doesn't care what pleases you, you need a new lover.

[Little]

Don't do it. I just had this conversation with my man, and he says it's one of the worst things you can do to a person.
If he means something to you and finds out that you've faked, he'll always wonder whether you're faking. It's a real esteem-killer! It's better to just let him know what works, like rcoreyus said, or else he might never find out what works.

[inquisitive1]

There are online "amateur" porn sites that have real exhabitionist couples having sex and enjoying themselves with real orgasms. Some softcore, some hardcore. There are of course also fake "amateur" sites with professionals.

I suspect I will get yelled at if I suggest a specific site.

Hi rcoreyus-
Ouch! I don't know who should or why anyone would yell at you. What do the site rules say regarding this matter? If it is permitted it should not be a problem.

As far as faking orgasms: I'm sure some people can do it well, some badly

- but except on rare occasions please dont!

If you fake it badly, your lover may feel lied to. If you fake it well, your lover may not be able to figure out what pleases you. If yoru lover doesn't care what pleases you, you need a new lover.

Hello Sarah44-
I agree with this. This was the first thing I thought of.

[MiniVanMan]

Please don't ...

Sometimes I think I can tell because of the way her vagina contracts. But really I have no way of knowing for sure.

But please don't fake orgasms. It does three things:

1) It teaches us guys that whatever we are doing while you are faking it is what gets you off.
2) It teaches us guys that quickies are what you want.
3) It's dishonest. Honesty is extremely important in relationships.

- MVM

[mr.mansview]

i doubt most men cannot tell if a women is faking unless she starts "over acting"..remember the scene from the movie "seperate vacations"..a married man is looking for some extra curricular activity in mexico and gets a women in bed..he gives her two little kisses on the neck and she says "oh yes. you are the greatest lover i have ever known"..even a man that is dumb as a stump could pick up on that one..