I'm 19 years old and I've only had sex with 4 different guys but I've never felt anything during sex with any of them . I get really horny and wet but it just doesn't feel good to be when I'm having sex. Even when I'm being fingered it doesn't feel good to me. The last person I had sex with before my boyfriend was two years ago and he was around 9 inches and I still wasnt able to feel him inside me so I know the problem is my vagina. Sometimes during and after sex it feels like my vagina is burning. Most of the time it feels like my bladder is being hit especially when I'm on top. I bought a vibrator last year and using it didn't feel that much better. Whenever I try to masturbate it just feels like its tingling a little bit but thats all i feel. I love my boyfriend and i think hes sexy and I don't understand why I can't enjoy sex like every other person in this world. Could it be possible that my vagina is numb or that I don't have a G-spot?
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I can't feel anything during sex except my bladder being hit, feeling like i need to
I can't feel anything during sex except my bladder being hit, feeling like i need to pee, and him going in and out.
I'm 19 years old and I've only had sex with 4 different guys but I've never felt anything during sex with any of them . I get really horny and wet but it just doesn't feel good to be when I'm having sex. Even when I'm being fingered it doesn't feel good to me. The last person I had sex with before my boyfriend was two years ago and he was around 9 inches and I still wasnt able to feel him inside me so I know the problem is my vagina. Sometimes during and after sex it feels like my vagina is burning. Most of the time it feels like my bladder is being hit especially when I'm on top. I bought a vibrator last year and using it didn't feel that much better. Whenever I try to masturbate it just feels like its tingling a little bit but thats all i feel. I love my boyfriend and i think hes sexy and I don't understand why I can't enjoy sex like every other person in this world. Could it be possible that my vagina is numb or that I don't have a G-spot? -
hello sweetie,
first things first your 19, you may not be able to orgasm yet, I personally didnt have my first one until I was 20. Second of all, I was the exact same, I used to always feel like i needed to pee whenever I had sex, the fear of peeing made me completely stop enjoying sex. Then my ex boyfriend told me when I needed to pee not to worry about it because it actually meant that I was going to "squirt" so the next time we are going at it and im not enjoying it as much as i'd hope and want to stop so i can go pee and he wouldnt let me and just said if i pee'd on him it was his fault and that he was sure i would just squirt. He was right, and I must say its one of the most powerful and wonderful types of orgasms I ever have. And wow do boys find it sexy. embrace it and enjoy it!
I find vibrators and dildos dont get me off as much as I'd hope I prefer just using my fingers on my clit. I always get huge tingles on the soles of my feet before I cum. Just relax and enjoy, you are perfectly normal xx
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