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  • nicole_3512
    Member
    • Jan 2013
    • 75

    how to help reach orgasm..?

    hey everyone,
    Im guessing that this topic has probably been talked about a lot but I was looking through some of the other threads like this and it didnt really help me much. I was wondering if anyone knew ways to help me go over the top to orgasm.

    Today and yesterday I was right at the point, I felt the female equivalent to ejaculation. I felt like I was right there and could burst any minute... sadly about 5 minutes later still nothing just at that point..

    today however I just felt extreme pleasure but no about to burst feeling.

    HELP?
  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    Try building up to orgasm, then backing the stimulation down and repeating. Also work on the mood such as sounds, scents and visual, such as favorite scenes from movies that get you excited. The final thing is to just let go and not hold on.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • Guest

      Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay...

      The more time you spend in it, often times, the better the results you realize on the way to orgasm.

      What have you done differently before to achieve it? Or haven't you ever achieved orgasm with a partner?
      Last edited by Guest; 01-03-2013, 08:19 AM. Reason: typos, sorry!

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      • nicole_3512
        Member
        • Jan 2013
        • 75

        never

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        • MoeJr
          Member
          • Jan 2013
          • 71

          Originally posted by nicole_3512
          never
          My advice would be if you haven't already, take time out on your own to explore. Pleasing yourself, knowing what turns you on the most, achieving that orgasm on your own will be a first lesson to knowing how your partner can achieve this for you. Many women who are asked if they are an outside or inside woman don't even know. Knowing this and communicating with a partner can make for a pleasant sexual experience for both.

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