OK so the other day my boyfriend fingered me and I was soar and that's all but the days after I started having some pain and I still do. The pain is kind of below my belly button and I believe I was suppose to have my period last or this week but I'm scared and I'm paranoid that I might be pregnant so I don't know if I haven't had my period yet because I've been stressing.
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Have you and your boyfriend had intercourse? Its impossible to get pregnant just from him fingering you -
well if he ejaculated and then as soon as he did he touched his sperm and then fingered you then there is a slim possibility but if there is no way that sperm can be inside you then you have nothing to worry about ! if you are still a little questionable get a pregnancy test from your local drug store.Comment
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How old are you ? You seem Young ..
I'm asking this because ,at least here in the USA most schools have basic Sex Education classes in Jr High ( middle school ) or First year of High School . They teach you the basic facts of how you get pregnant and how to protect yourself from pregnancy and Sexually Transmitted Diseases ( STD's ).
You might try to talk with your Mother or Trusted Adult like a School Counselor or Nurse or Aunt and have them explain the " Birds and Bee's " to you.
His Fingering of you seems to have been a bit Rough if it made you sore . As said, fingering cannot get you pregnant if there's no sperm on the finger.
It's best you do some research,ask some questions, learn about your body and reproduction. Avoid doing anything that you do not know the consequences of. Fingering can lead to intercourse, intercourse can lead to pregnancy and STD's if not protected.
Don't let him pressure you to have sex, if his fingering was rough his actual penetration could be rough too and even cause you rips or tears in your vagina if your not lubricated enough and he is not gentle and takes his time.
If you can't talk to your Mom about it, it's probably something you shouldn't be doing at this time.
Educate yourself honey, learn the facts and possibilities, before jumping into a Sexual relationship, this is for any age that one decides to take the Sexual Jump.
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