[rcoreyus]

He sounds really selfish. Is sex the only problem (its a BIG problem), does he do all sorts of caring and loving things for you in other ways. If not, why are you still with him?

He is welcome to desire whatever he wants in bed, but you don't need to be the one to provide it. Don't stay with someone who doesn't make you happy

[jns]

What are these guys bringing to the table that keeps these girls locked in relations with them? If they don't respect you and pull their weight in bed, why not find someone else?

[Guest]

If you're not worth a book, then he's not worth a second look.

Drop this guy like a bad habit and find someone who will actually and honestly appreciate you.

People are treated in the way in which they allow themselves to be treated.

[MoeJr]

Personally both of you are having the issue I believe because you allow it.....stop giving in !!!!!!!!! You know ?? We all know too well the cutting me off thing (as men) it sucks.... I would be willing to bet they will shape up... good luck!

[shoshannah]

You are jot an object that exists solely for his pleasure.

If you aren't getting through to him, cut off the sex. Tell him you're not available until he starts acting less selfish. And then stick with that.

One way to approach this would be to tell him one night that he must give you oral or something else you enjoy first, and then when he's done that you'll reward him with intercourse of a BJ or something he likes. get into the habit of this. If that's too much for him you shouldn't be bothering with him.

[curiouslady269]

I know I don't have this issue. My husband is amazing in bed, and he loves oral sex. He has made me a multiorgasmic woman. If your guy is that lazy, sounds like it is time to move on. Find another guy who will appreciate you. Especially if you swallow! My husband would love you!