I can only get a little bit of my finger in, i've tried to masturbate so many times but just given up now because it just wont fit. I'm a virgin and i'm too scared to have sex because of this, i'm worried he wont be able to get it in. I put my finger in and i touch something which will not let me push my finger in any further. It literally just feels like a wall stopping anything going in. It isn't painful at all and it's really making me angry. Something so simple as masturbation that EVERYONE does and i can't even do it. It's getting me really annoyed
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You are probably hitting your intact hymen. Masturbation of the clitoris is more likely to bring you to orgasm. It is located where the folds of skin come together above where you urinate from.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
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If you are just starting to masturbate, don't worry about insertion, REALLY. I masturbated very happily for about 20 years without any insertion. focus on your clitoris. that is where learning to receive pleasure starts anyway. Once you are good at that, then move on to penetration. It's very hard to get pleasure from penetration without first learning to love your clit. All part of the same nerve bundle, but the clit is easier to "train."Comment
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