[amy4show21]

i dont know who to ask about this but on alot occasions i will be having a sexual dream and have a very intense orgasm from it, and then there r other times wen i dreamt i had a penis and would feel everything and wen i wake up i am in the middle of having a cliteral orgasm. now here is the weird part i am in no means attracted to girls nor am i interested in incest but for some reason my most intense orgasm comes from wen i, once again, dream that i have a penis but then i am penetrating my mother. it groases me out in real life but it seems to get me off in my dreams. so is this normal? is there something wrong with me?

[DreamP346]

Penis dream - totally normal. Many women have it.

Dreams are a way for us to resolve issues we subconsciously have during our waking hours. They are not literal translations, meaning your sex dream with your mother does not automatically equate to you wanting sex with your mother. It would be a million different things: issues with you dad or mom's boyfriend, sex with a maternal person, dominating you mom, figuring out ways to communicate with your mom, coming to terms with the fact that your mom is a sexual being, realizing your are a sexual person just like your mom, wanting to talk to mom about sex, etc. And it could be two unrelated issues being resolved in dreams like mom issues, sex issues, female role issues and stress. So hopefully I have made everything even more complicated. What I am trying to say is don't read too much into the dream. I know it can be disturbing to have the dreams you describe, but its just a type of nightmare.

[amy4show21]

thanks for the reply but the only thing is i dont have a father so it is confusing as to y i am having these dreams. wat i du know is that sometimes i have them wen we get in an argument or i am mad at her. do u think it is a form of trying to get my point across or wanting to domn

[amy4show21]

wanting to dominate my situation? plz write and let me know ur opinion

[MoeJr]

Dream interpretation can be a very difficult thing, some dreams even as though you are in them doesn't always have to be about you. Subconsciously it could be all about your mother. As an example: Is she in a relationship? Does she put off her own life/sexual experience etc. to tend to her children? (A decent parent will do that) Maybe somewhere you feel as if your holding her back from being happy. (Coming from a single parent myself your not, just saying) In your dream your seeing her sexual,seemingly happy... dreams also can be a mix. Your thinking sexual and security/comfort your mother makes you feel safe. Subconscious thoughts don't know/or care that the image is your mother.....As sp346 stated just a form of nightmare when you awaken! Take Care your fine

[amy4show21]

the one thing that you said kinda makes sence. my mother has been on a few dates but she hasnt had sex since she had my sis 25 years ago so it could be that i am tryin to satisfy her, but it makes no sence dat i have these dreams wen i am mad at her.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

You say your Mother has not had sex for 25 years what about you?

You also say you have no Father did you know your Father?

It could be that you are dreaming of what you "want" for your Mother to have a man in her life that could be your Father, or should have and that you miss not having a Father image.

Await your reply and welcome to the Forum.

CW

[Harmony]

When you are "mad" at your mother her presence is rife in your conscious and unconscious mind, hence the dreams and what SP346 said about dreams being associated with residual thoughts in the subconscious

Having sex with her, that is to say you penetrating her with a penis could be your way of trying to psychologically dominate/overcome her overpowering personality, especially if associate sex with being dominated or dominating (that might be something you enjoy).

A long, long time ago when I was about 19 there was someone whom I was quite afraid of, and I had a couple of dreams that he would either hurt or humiliate me, nothing too graphic ever happened because I'm such a light sleeper that I would wake up before it could, but I knew what was coming. Not long after that I started weight training and did some martial arts training (I still do the weight training but did the martial arts training on and off for years, last lesson was 2007). Strangely enough the next time involving this guy the outcome was quite different and my reaction to him was a lot calmer, in my sub-conscious mind I KNEW I could kick his ******* if he tried anything and I had obviously found some inner peace from that which resonated deep inside me somewhere and manifested itself in dream form (which I had no control over) . Interestingly enough the next time I saw him he was very nervous around me, I've not seen him since.