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  • kira
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2008
    • 986

    Actually I find women the opposite of men since they can finish as many times as they want. The more I masturbate the more I want sex. The less I masturbate the less I think about sex and therefore the less I want it. I could masturbate all day and it would just make me really ready for my husband when he came home from work. There are times I have masturbated right before he was due home just so I'd be ready to have sex quick or while on yasmin when it would take forever to get wet.

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    • mrmusic
      Member
      • Oct 2012
      • 21

      I strongly believe that masturbation is better than sex. It is cleaner, faster and more effective in reaching orgasm. You are in full control of the momentum, speed, duration and you can decide whether to reach orgasm or not.
      Last edited by mrmusic; 01-15-2013, 07:30 PM.

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        Masturbation may be fun, but sharing the moment of complete release and complete vulnerability with the one you love and who loves you is beyond compare. Being out of control at that moment heightens the feelings.
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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        • MoeJr
          Member
          • Jan 2013
          • 71

          Originally posted by kira
          Actually I find women the opposite of men since they can finish as many times as they want. The more I masturbate the more I want sex. The less I masturbate the less I think about sex and therefore the less I want it. I could masturbate all day and it would just make me really ready for my husband when he came home from work. There are times I have masturbated right before he was due home just so I'd be ready to have sex quick or while on yasmin when it would take forever to get wet.
          Um.......... Maybe you just need to up the intensity of your sex with your partner In my opinion the idea of finishing is slightly different. We all know there is......Ok that was good....then there is: WoW .....but lets not forget : Holy Oh (u know) THAT WAS AMAZING!

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          • Harmony
            Veteran Member
            • Nov 2012
            • 311

            Is trying a different pill an option?
            No matter how objective we try to be, we all see through our own eyes...

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            • kira
              Veteran Member
              • Feb 2008
              • 986

              We can't up anything. We are already having sex as many times as he possibly can and went to get cialis pills so we are up to daily. Any time I don't have an amazing finish he gets out the toys and makes sure of it.

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              • MoeJr
                Member
                • Jan 2013
                • 71

                Originally posted by kira
                We can't up anything. We are already having sex as many times as he possibly can and went to get cialis pills so we are up to daily. Any time I don't have an amazing finish he gets out the toys and makes sure of it.
                Jeeze...you have a sister? haha Just kidding. Sorry my advise has run out on this one...Good Luck though, I'm sure you will find a way to level it out in time.

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