[curiouslady269]

My husband just recently told me about his desire for wearing pantyhose. It took a bit, but I have gotten used to him wearing them. He has also recently decided to shave his legs. He loves wearing them and we have sex while both of us wear them as well.

How many other women out there have men with the same fetish for pantyhose?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Fetish's are exactly that..

I am not sure if you will get many replies here.. How do you feel though about it really, you have joined him, as his wife, is that because you like the idea or because you want to make him happy?

There are sites for fetishes that may help you more in your reply .

But welcome to WH..

If you need thoughts, support then you came to the right Forum.

CW

[mary-ann]

My husband wears my things when I'm not there, though he doesn't know that I know, and as a rule the sex is usually better on the days he has dressed up, so much so that I've started leaving things at the top of the drawer for him, perhaps one day when I pluck up the nerve I will broach the subject with him. One thing I do know is he isn't gay

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Sorry Mary-ann,

I deleted the post pertaining to that as frankly, each person is an individual and no one knows people better than their partners.

I hope the OP returns but in your situation. Do you think leaving things out, may make him realise you know?

It's hard to make that "communication of discussion" but if you are not particularily worried, I suggest that you two be honest and bite the bullet and let him know...

It may open a new world for you, as communication is one of the number 1's in relationships.

Welcome to WH.

[mary-ann]

I'm not really sure how to approach the subject, I've thought about discussing it generally about a third party and gauge his reaction though I'm not sure I want to encourage it going further, knowing is one thing, seeing is something else.

[Harmony]

I can remember a few threads lie the OP's. I think men wearing women's underwear is actually quite common, though as far as fetishes go it is one that men are more reluctant to share with their partners due to the anticipated negative reaction. I think this makes a lot of younger girls quite uncomfortable.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

The few times my man let me do it I loved dressing him up it was sooo much fun and doing makeup(:

[jon-uk]

I'm not really sure how to approach the subject, I've thought about discussing it generally about a third party and gauge his reaction though I'm not sure I want to encourage it going further, knowing is one thing, seeing is something else.

Maybe you could "accidentally" catch him one day - say you're going out for a few hours then come back because you forgot your phone or whatever? He probably does want you to know. Or is it that actually seeing him in your stuff would be a total turn off?

[Guest]

i wear my wife's bra n high heels, my wife is completely ok with this

[Alex HPS]

I'm not really sure how to approach the subject, I've thought about discussing it generally about a third party and gauge his reaction though I'm not sure I want to encourage it going further, knowing is one thing, seeing is something else.

Honestly why not just say to him "I think someone has been borrowing my clothes. I find it such a turn on, imagining a strong male body in soft, seductive ladies clothing. I wonder who it could be" and then maybe give him a wink or a stroke on the arm, just something to physically reassure him. Then turn slightly away so that your body language is not directly challenging, but neither are you rejecting him or seeming cold and unapproachable.

Something like that lol. This way you are not directly confronting/accusing him (by saying 'someone') and you are letting him know that you find it arousing (even if that's not strictly true at this point) whilst also emphasising that you don't consider it sissy or emasculating (describing his strong male body).

Anyway I'm pretty sure that once you let him know that it's OK, you'll be in for some serious sexytime.

I remember when I first confided in my woman that I liked having my prostate stimulated. It was SUCH a blessed relief when she said "oh well, there's nothing wrong with that", because she was the first woman I had ever told. And now we have been together nearly 10 years and she is very much my soulmate... probably because I don't have to hold anything back from her.

Trust me, if you get this right, it could really strengthen the bond between you because he might feel (like I did) that he can truly be himself with you, in ALL aspects of his life.

But don't agonise over how you should play this, because then it might come out stilted and awkward. Eh, perhaps alcohol might be a good tool to use in this situation. Just enough to relax you both...

Alex