[Imjustagirl86]

I'm not really sure how to approach the subject, I've thought about discussing it generally about a third party and gauge his reaction though I'm not sure I want to encourage it going further, knowing is one thing, seeing is something else.

I wouldnt beat around the bush. I have found doing so makes things much more intricate than needed. If you're not sure how you feel, which i understand, I would confront him about it. I think if you're not sure about his doings, it will eventually erode at you. I know if something is bothering me with my spouse, and I let it go, it comes out later much worse than it would have if i had confronted it earlier. You don't have to be nasty about it, but ask him, or tell him that you are aware of what hes doing. I agree that knowing and seeing are two different things. He has his reasons for doing it, why not try to understand or at best, hear him out? It may not have anything to do with you. It could go far back before you two knew each other, perhaps to his childhood? I agree, communication is key. I know its difficult, because I'm not sure how I would handle it, but try to remain somewhat open minded and reserved when asking him because its most likely a sensitive subject for him. Good luck.

[Guest]

Mary - ann, hi
if u r **** sure he isnt gay
u shud buy him a sexy bra for an occasion like B'day
pls dont create prob just enjoy

[Stag]

I'm a guy and can relate. My wife doesn't fully understand my weakness for her pantyhose, but she knows I wear them and also gets in on it, taking advantage of my state by wearing them and using her legs and feet on me. You ladies with hubby's who love the nylons, have you tried that with them?