[meemzeesh]

Hey guys, this is my first post! So I'm nineteen, and started having sex when I was fifteen, and in that time I've been with quite a few people. A little over a year ago, I started going out with this lovely guy who was a virgin. I thought I could teach him to improve, so that he could satisfy me, but a year later he still cums in about two minutes. He also has a fairly small penis, around 5.5'. He tries very hard to please, and although I try to advise as nicely as I can, I haven't told him how...frustrated I am. I miss sex so much it practically hurts sometimes. I tell him what turns me on, but he just seems totally incapable. What do I do

[jns]

Either you are not the teacher for him or he is not a studious and diligent student. How often do you and he have sex? Will he still orgasm quickly the second or third time? Does he do any foreplay so you at least get some satisfaction? Does he use condoms?

[sallyjoseph]

Yes im agree with you jns, you are not a teacher to teach everything to him, give time and see how much he improve if not then ask whats problem in that.

[lovexlaugh]

If being subtle doesnt help, try being a little more forward. Pick up his hand, put it where you want it. Covering his hand with your own, show him how to please you. This will hopefully get you hot but keep him in control of himself. Are there any positions you love but he doesnt like as much? Try those occassionally. He might not be as satisfied but it may keep him in control until you've had your turn, and then you can focus on him.

[meemzeesh]

Thanks lovexlaugh, that's really helpful. Literally ever time is fast, whether it's second or third, etc. He does use foreplay and condoms, but even with all the foreplay in the world, it's not quite the same as a good shag.

[SpankedWife]

You are his first sexual partner. Of course he is going to clinax in 30 seconds. He has a LOT of learning and experience ahead of him before he can be the best roll in the hay you've ever had...

[dyunysus]

Ok, let me help you with this. I met my wife in high school and that was 15yrs ago. She was my first and is still the only women i have slept with. I used to have a problem with cumming to fast, like most virgins. Here is how you can help with that. Get some adult videos, haver him masturbate ALONE. When he gets close to ejaculation he needs to stop and wait for his penis to go semi-limp. Keep watching the whole time. Then masturbate again till near climax and stop. Repeat this about 5-7 times. It is important that he does not ejaculate on the last round either. Then do kegel exercises and rest. Wait till the next day and repeat. Do this for about a week and then have sex. He should last longer this time.

Also look up how to last longer in bed on the web, there was a whole video series on it, from what i described above, to how the have sex and prolong your ejaculation during sex.
One other thing a 5.5 to 6.5" penis is a normal size for most males, so that not the problem.

As far as getting you to orgasm, he needs to spend lots of time on foreplay.. from kissing to penetration should be at least 10-15 min, 30 min if you really want to cum hard.

Good Luck!