[hhmw]

Hi everybody, I have been having some troubles with reaching orgasm and maintaining lubrication when masturbating.
Things will be fine in the beginning, I have no problem getting lubricated and it's always a great amount. When I play with my clitoris, I can stay wet. But when I insert my fingers or a toy into my vagina, it doesn't quite make me feel good, sometimes drying me out, and always making me feel uncomfortable like I have to urinate. Sometimes I try to keep going, on the verge of tears from just how awful it feels, because I feel like I've never reached orgasm through vaginal stimulation.
Any help would be appreciated, thank you!!

[time2discover]

If you look around the forum you'll see the alot of women don't orgasm from penetration and I don't think torturing yourself is gonna help you either. I rarely orgasm from penetration and even if it's the real deal, so don't put so much pressure on yourself and your toys.

Sex is a pleasure not a test you have to pass!!!

[bubba29]

Hi everybody, I have been having some troubles with reaching orgasm and maintaining lubrication when masturbating.
Things will be fine in the beginning, I have no problem getting lubricated and it's always a great amount. When I play with my clitoris, I can stay wet. But when I insert my fingers or a toy into my vagina, it doesn't quite make me feel good, sometimes drying me out, and always making me feel uncomfortable like I have to urinate. Sometimes I try to keep going, on the verge of tears from just how awful it feels, because I feel like I've never reached orgasm through vaginal stimulation.
Any help would be appreciated, thank you!!

stimulate your clit and penetrate yourself at the same time. if you feel you have to pee, relax, let it go and force it out. you will not pee, you will ejaculate. your problem seems to be you are not able to relax and let it go for fear of peeing.

[amh424]

Maybe use a personal lubricant to keep yourself from drying out. This should make it feel more comfortable. And, as the above poster said, don't neglect the clit while penetrating. Clitoral stimulation is critical to pleasure/orgasm for many women.

[Rlbutler89]

The only man to ever make me orgasm from penetration without clit stimulation is my current boyfriend. Relax and enjoy it and clot stimulation goes hand in hand with orgasm is most situations.

[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

You need a real man making love to you not a piece of plastic - plastic cant get you pregnant you body is not tricked by what is not real.

If a man is over the top of you sweating and about to enter you then your going to get wet because your anticipating him entering you without that how can you get wet or aroused ?

You have nothing really to get aroused about ?