it really bothers me when my bf masturbates. like it physicaly makes me sick and want to through up. why does it bother me so much, he doesn't do it all the time ( barely ever ) but yet i do it alot more then he does.
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Well, why does it bother you - any idea? I don't want to tread too much on dangerous ground, but any traumatic experiences in your past?
I'm afraid you will need to become comfortable with the idea - what is the old joke that surveys show that 95% of men masturbate, and 5% lie. Realistically he isn't going to stop. -
I agree that you need to get to the root of these negative feelings. There must be something deep down that makes you feel this way. What is it exactly about the process that makes you sick? Can you pin point it to something in particular? The way it looks, the way he acts, or what? I noticed you made another post about not having sex in a long time. Could your negative feelings towards him masterbating be stemming from that?
It is definately true that his masterbation is normal and not likely to stop any time soon. It also wouldn't be fair or even realistic to expect him to stop. So it's definately important to try to figure this out.Comment
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well im like you it bothers me when my boyfriend masturbates and im not sure why i just cant stand it. I dont get grossed out or anything i just get angry and stay angry at him it gets to the point that i dont want to look him in the face and i stay angry at him for a while then it just goes away.
Does anyone have any ideas on why that is?Comment
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when i lived with my ex he used to do it in the shower which used to **** me the hell off. basically it makes u feel like his hand can do it better than u can. so when he would tell me he wasnt in the mood id masterbate too but i did it infront of him lmao. (im an ***), BUT thats how it made me feel when he did it but then i started to notice he only did it when it was that time of the month for me.
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