[alijakiki]

I'm a virgin, but I've recently started experimenting with masturbation.
I stimulate my clit, and after I'm going at it for a while, this thing happens where it feels like my vaginal muscles and anus involuntarily tighten up a really hard, like there's a lot of pressure in my vagina-butt area, and then my abs do a quick contraction. And then it goes away. It's pretty quick, like a few seconds.

I'm asking because they say "oh you'll know when you have an orgasm"... it's not like I feel a ton of pleasure during this thing that happens after I rub it out a while, just the pressure and contractions.

Your opinions would be great

[DreamP346]

Not sure you had an orgasm. Most women feel lots of pleasure during an orgasm, but you have to remember not all women are the same. Some don't find the orgasm as pleasurable as the build up. Also orgasms come in all different forms. The explosive orgasm that Meg Ryan fakes in When Harry Met Sally is just one type. Don't think that that is the only way. Just keep experimenting with yourself. That is the only way to know.

[Going upward]

That doesn't sound like an orgasm to me either. I've experienced both those feelings, but the feeling you just explained in my case was the mid way point of arousal when I usually get the wettest right before an orgasm. But everyone is different and some orgasms are milder than others. When it happens you usually know it because the desire level change and the intensity of your pleasure is very noticeable. Good luck

[Little_Man_in_the_Boat]

Orgasm is not something your have any doubts about it really is a life changing moment.

Imagine yourself hitting a brick wall, the air bags deploy and your face is bleeding really badly and you ask yourself did I hit something ?

Its very obvious that you've hit something.

The some with orgasm.

I think you need a man that can caress your all over for hours that is very patient and gentle.

When you know you could get pregnant thats what turns your body on regardless of what you consciously think.

If a guy is naked next to you caressing you then your body is getting ready to accept him thats why you get wet or why you should get wet.

I guess that sounds obvious but thats why you get wet.

A dildo is not real and it cant get you pregnant so why would you get wet ?

Why would you get wet from masturbating unless in your mind your preparing for a man to enter you ?

You need a guy that just keeps kissing you around the neck and on your mouth and around your ear lobes gently but passionatly, continuously till it your heart is racing and your body is sweating in anticipation of his ....

Forget everything your have seen on T.V or movies and just turn out the lights and experiment on what feels good not what you think might feel good.

Think of anything that turns you on.

[lovexlaugh]

I found that my first few orgasms where similar to that, but when I had a few more they got more intense