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  • Bladyn'smommy16
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 618

    Maybe he really doesn't want a baby he's just telling you that. men are weird sometimes they get scared

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    • Rlbutler89
      Member
      • Feb 2013
      • 27

      Idk maybe but the whole baby thing was his idea and he constantly talks about it almost to the point of it getting on my nerves LOL. Maybe its our age difference I just turned 24 and he will be 32 in August

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      • Bladyn'smommy16
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        • Feb 2013
        • 618

        My husband is 29 I'm 21 he acted like he wanted another baby for a while then he changed said he couldnt afford it but he doesn't use any protection nor do I so maybe your husband just changed his mind and is trying to make you think he still does has anything changed about him lately?

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        • Rlbutler89
          Member
          • Feb 2013
          • 27

          Not that I can think of. Other than he has played video games a lot more

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          • Bladyn'smommy16
            Veteran Member
            • Feb 2013
            • 618

            Then he's probably just changed his mind even if he gets mad ask him I thought you wanted a baby that would mean sex as much as possible

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            • Bladyn'smommy16
              Veteran Member
              • Feb 2013
              • 618

              Also if he smokes excessively then that decreases the sex drive either weed or cigarettes

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              • jns
                Assistant Admin
                • Mar 2010
                • 8398

                Rl, it sounds like a control issue where he gives you some of what you want and keeps you coming back for the rest. This is not an even relationship.
                I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                ...
                Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                • JonDoe
                  Veteran Member
                  • Sep 2010
                  • 444

                  Originally posted by Rlbutler89
                  Yes he makes get off 95% of the time. Take last night for example... I have been extra turned on the last few day probably due to the fact I'm ovulating. I've been hinting and things at him that I want to have sex and he turns me down cold. So last night he knows I'm frustrated with him and he starts messing with me and he pleasures me orally but then didn't want to have sex afterwards which just made me more upset.
                  Why are you upset with the man you love, who unselfishly pleasured you orally, but simply wasn't in the mood to have intercourse? That sounds like ungrateful nagging to me, which is a huge turn-off. I wish my wife could learn to be an unselfish lover and please me orally when I am in the mood and she isn't. Learn to be content in the moment!

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                  • Rlbutler89
                    Member
                    • Feb 2013
                    • 27

                    I am grateful very much so I just don't think its fair I have to give into him when he wants sex. Why should it only be a one way street?

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                    • Bladyn'smommy16
                      Veteran Member
                      • Feb 2013
                      • 618

                      It shouldn't be!

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