[metboogie]

PS - Be very careful when you press the button - it can cause spontaneous ejaculation....and you want to make sure you are ready for it.

[Fallen1]

Thanks metboogie and band of gypsies.

I was wondering after I posted the question if it was a case of every guy being different, in other words you had to experiment to find.

[Little]

Let me give you a tip (as a man) - there's something called the "panic button"...if your guy takes too long while your going down and you are ready to move on - you hit the panic button...

God, I wish my boyfriend would let me do this to him. His friends even call it the "key to world peace," but he won't even let me touch the skin behind his testicles I guess we get along well enough without it, but I really want to wow him sometimes!

[rcoreyus]

God, I wish my boyfriend would let me do this to him. His friends even call it the "key to world peace," but he won't even let me touch the skin behind his testicles I guess we get along well enough without it, but I really want to wow him sometimes!

Too bad (for him!). On men the area between the testicles and the anus acts kind of like an extension of the penis. Stroking that area (the same way you might stroke a penis) can be very arrousing (depending on the man YMMV of course).

I understand that stimulating the prostate works very well on many men. Best if they are very arroused before you start .

While you are at it, don't forget earlobes, nipples, toes, necks, shoulders, etc - there is a lot of area to explore if he is willing to experiment.

I've never understood why people (men or women) are not willing to try something new at least once.

[metboogie]

The spot between the penis and anus (there is a name for it, I just can't remember it) can be very, very ticklish for people. I know it's a pretty ticklish spot for me (even in my most relaxed, sensual state) and I have at at least 2 exes where it was untouchable because it would make them hit the roof it was so ticklish - and that would kill the mood.

[dawn9800]

I know this is a bit immature but some people call this area the gooch te he

[MiniVanMan]

Taint

It's called the "Taint", because 'taint your balls and 'taint your anus! - MiniVanMan

[LadyLane]

Its technically called the perineum. Porn actors also call it a "grundle"!! LOL, that cracked me up... I only heard of it as the "taint."

Anyway, with specifics to the blow job itself... are you using your hands? I'll give you some of my techniques. This is graphic, but here goes... first get him very very wet using your mouth (obviously) all up and down the shaft. Then, use your mouth for the head and top of the shaft and your fist for the rest of the shaft... make sure to move them both in the same direction and rhythm at the same time. To him it will feel like one long, continuous mouth. You can also gently twist your hand in a swirling motion as your hand is going up, then swirl back down. Also, if you can stand it, every once in a while, slowly go all the way down his penis until it is in your throat. Even if it just touches the back of your throat for a moment or two - well, if you can hold it until you think you're going to gag, then slide it back out. My DH goes INSANE when I do that. I get all parts involved. Sometimes I encircle from under his ball sack to the base of his penis with my thumb and middle finger, it gives a "tightening" sensation to the area. I definitely rub his taint with a very wet finger, putting slight pressure when I'm toward the "back door" with the pad of my finger. A lot goes on. Hopefully some of this will help. But all I know is, he thinks I am the bj queen, and I'm pretty confident in my abilities. I'm never down there for more than a few minutes, unless I want to be .

Have fun!

[LadyLane]

Regarding the prostate thing, ladies, also remember: not all guys are receptive to it, so its better to ask then to have him yelp, "What the **** are you doing?" while you're on your knees. Kind of a mood killer for both, I'd imagine. No one wants a finger jammed - or gently pushed or however else I may word it - up their exit door without warning.

I notice alot of men telling you to try it, Reesecup, but unless you know he's receptive to it, I wouldn't even go for it yet.

Not that I don't appreciate your instructions, gentlemen.

[metboogie]

Great point Lady - you definitely want to make sure he's open to it...

Also, some women have trouble keeping the shaft wet using the technique Lady was talking about - try intimite options lube if you need some help...

One last thing - a spontaneous BJ is the best BJ - just make sure you are safe.