[courtneybrown_]

My boyfriend and I are sexually active and are looking for new positions to try. He's a bigger boy (around 5'11, 220 with a gut) and I'm pretty slim (5'8, 137 for now!!) and I usually ride on top and switch to doggy style after a while. I'm not bored with what we do - but I'd like to spice things up in the bedroom and he agrees. I'm also interested in how people have sex in the shower - we tried it once and just couldn't figure it out hahaha. Any advice or tips would be appreciated!

[time2discover]

Shower suggestions,ok! We usually start out with sensual, I wash you and you wash me!
After that, somewhere along the way, it turns to sex. Depending on the right button that
day.Alot of the times though we'll continue with the drying eachother and go from there.
It can turn at whatever point you feel that day. Love in the shower, oral after drying or
finishing in the bedroom. Take your pick and have fun!

[Caregirl]

Depends on the size of the shower!

I have a shower over my bath so we tend to start off like T2D said (I'll wash your back you wash mine) foreplay etc. Then I lean my forearms against the wall, lengthways into the bath, and he stands behind me with his arms around to play at the front Kinda like stand-up-spooning!

Feels really nice but if he's a big guy you gotta mind that you face towards the shower, you don't want him stealing all the nice hot water lol x

[Element]

I think with the height between you two, you might stand a chance. My man and I have a six inch height difference, so having sex standing up can't happen, he has to stoop too low for comfort! lol. But a way to try it is for you to have your back against the wall, put a foot up on the corner of the tub, and have him try to enter you.

If that can't work, then I suggest him being behind you; you two facing the shower head or away from the shower head.

If all else fails; lay in the tub. My man and I do this in order to have sex in the shower because of our height difference. You on the floor of the tub; try to get as close to the wall while laying down as you can; so he has more room to do his thing. Have him enter you and get on top, wrap your legs up on him. A tub has limited space, so that's why you need to be curled up towards the wall; so he has room to maneuver to your guys' satisfaction.

As for other sex positions outside of the bathtub, it all depends on what you two like, would like to try, and are curious about. Is one more submissive than the other? Any fetishes? Prefer one to be on top more? You two can spoon facing each other, and facing away from each other. You can have him sit in a chair and you on top of him. Or you kneeling in the chair and him behind you.
I think a bit more information is needed so we can lead you in the right direction of what you two would like. There is a lot out there.

[courtneybrown_]

Thanks for the suggestions, I'm going home for our two-year this weekend and spending the weekend with him. As for what we like in the bedroom, he definitely likes when I take charge in bed more. I like to be on top just because he's big and doesn't really get that it hurts sometimes when he gets on top lol. The chair idea sounds interesting. We both aren't into anything involving anal, and I kind of like to be bitten during and he likes to be scratched. I'm not really sure what else there could be, we were each others firsts two years ago and I guess we're still kind of figuring things out to keep it exciting lol

[Trisha23]

Just try to be experimental. It is better if you discover things for yourself.

[caster]

Buy a book of positions, take turns picking a different one out. We've had a lot of fun with that. Some keepers, others would give us a good laugh, but it all feels good.
The shower takes some effort, biggest issue we've had isn't so much position, although it is a challenge in a small shower, it's that water isn't very slippery and can wash your natural lubricant away.