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  • xxooxx
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2007
    • 9

    sex with no pleasure

    hi eveyone...

    i have had sex with my boyfriend for 3 times.the first time had been very painful but i thought that was just only because dats the first time.but the 2nd and 3rd time was still the same..i mean with pain and due to that no pleasure..it feels like i want to pee.i really dont feel any pleasure and it feels so uncomfortable for me,i heard that haning sex for the first time only hurts and the pain goes away eventually .is there anything wrong with me?im really confused and i will appreciate any idea or advice..a big thanks in advance..pls pls pleeeeeeeeeeeas give me some advice.....
    GOD BLESS..
    Last edited by xxooxx; 10-25-2007, 02:18 PM.
  • xxooxx
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2007
    • 9

    no one replied....please give me some advice..pleeeeeeease

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    • Little
      • Feb 2007
      • 4329

      Nothing's wrong with you. Your body needs time to adjust.
      Take a day or two off, then try again. Go very, very, VERY slowly.
      Make sure you're completely ready before penetration.
      If you try that advice and still have more questions, absolutely post them.
      Good luck!
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      • babyface
        Member
        • Aug 2007
        • 11

        see the doctor

        My hymen took weeks to even allow complete entry and then months later it still wasn't completely torn and caused a lot of pain! I ended up cutting the last peices myself. Maybe if it doesn't improve, you could go see the doc? I wish that I had before the honeymoon.

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        • bbhollywood
          Member
          • Oct 2007
          • 11

          sex

          i know that feeling it feels like you have to go pee. sometimes during sex there is a pee spot the guy can hit that makes it feels like you have to go depends on the postion you are in. and than the hurting it depends what kind of hurting does it hurt while you having sex and after like in your abdominal area if so go see a dr. if it just hurts like is hard to walk after sex and sore than you just had rough sex is all.

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          • xxooxx
            Junior Member
            • Oct 2007
            • 9

            10x

            a really big thanks for the reply..might it be because penetrating before relaxing much which leads to less lubrication?
            once again a big thanks for the replies....it really hepled me

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            • xxooxx
              Junior Member
              • Oct 2007
              • 9

              sex

              bbhollywood..i really dnt kno how it hurts.i dnt have pain in my abdomen while or after sex,but while having sex i feel very uncomfortable,it feels like i have to pee and after sex the pain goes away.i doesnt hurt terribly.might it be because of less foreplay and lubrication?

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              • Little
                • Feb 2007
                • 4329

                Originally posted by xxooxx
                might it be because of less foreplay and lubrication?
                That is absolutely the reason. Remedy it.
                <center><i>Nature gives us shapeless shapes,<br>Clouds and waves and flame,<br>But human expectation is that love remains the same,<br>And when it doesn’t, we point our fingers and blame.</i><br><a href="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/register.php">Register</a>|<a href="http://www.womens-health.com/boards/members/little.html">Contact Admin</a>|<a href="mailto:support*womens-health.com?subject=Forum Contact">Email Admin</a></center>

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                • xxooxx
                  Junior Member
                  • Oct 2007
                  • 9

                  thanks

                  a big big thanks ..it really hepled me....God Bless!

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